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Old 12-15-2008, 09:42 AM   #1 (permalink)
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i see a thread about a wife who has cheated. If any man has been in this unfortunate situation and is willing to discuss it, what were the signs or behaviors, as you look back at it, that pointed to the wife having an affair?
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For me it was when she turned very distant from me. She seemed to be no longer interested in talking to me about the little things. Reading romance novels and then going to bed early. If she starts doing anything out of the ordinary may be a sign. Buying sexy things (that she does not show you), walking/exercising at strange times. When communication slows/stops BEWARE!
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Has anything changed ?

How is your sex life ?

Is she still intrested or is she pulling away ?
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Has anything changed ?

How is your sex life ?

Is she still intrested or is she pulling away ?
yes, alot

fair but not great

we are both pulling away
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Going out alone a lot.

Not being home on time.

Going to bars alone or with people you don't know.

not answering her phone when you call.

Answering or texting people from other rooms.

Shutting down computer screens when you come in the room.

a few of the signs I just thought of.

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Going out alone a lot. (yes, shopping)

Not being home on time.(never had a sense for time)

Going to bars alone or with people you don't know.(nope)

not answering her phone when you call.(yep)

Answering or texting people from other rooms.(yep)

Shutting down computer screens when you come in the room.(yep)
a few of the signs I just thought of.

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okeydokie ...




that you can get things worked out ... so if you ever want to talk ... give me a shout out !!!
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oh crap
chill a little..those things aren't "evidence" of adultery...don't let your mind wander...
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It maybe an emotional affair or nothing at all, but I'd try to get to the bottom of it all.

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chill a little..those things aren't "evidence" of adultery...don't let your mind wander...
nah, mind isnt wandering. i truly dont think she could or would cheat.
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Old 12-16-2008, 02:37 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Here is what I found.
Text messages.
Phone calls.

get phone records, its usually pretty solid and impossible to deny.
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yes, alot

fair but not great

we are both pulling away
What do you mean by a lot has changed?
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