Originally Posted by square1
<---not a man but just curious by sex are you just referring to some v action or is oral included in these figures given?
Men want any sex (Its our way of feeling emotionally and physically close) mostly v action...but o action and h action counts in a pinch. It's somewhat related to protecting the female from insemination from other males at the most primal level of evolution. That's also why you'll hear 2-3 times a week a lot. That means sperm is in their v always. That makes a man happy and feel the wife is satisfied and not likely to cheat at all.
I like knowing my stuff is inside my wife's V
it eases my mind totally. Can't wait for tomorrow or Saturday it'll be the first time for our "new" sex life after four months exactly without!
So the range for me is 1-10 days ideally. After 10 it becomes a mental issue. After 30 a HUGE MENTAL ISSUE (because of the female cycle). Men can't turn that off normally it is a primal urge. I know many women don't buy that... whatever you aren't a man! It's truth.
I stopped drinking, smoking pot, gambling, porn but cannot shut off my sex drive! I tried.
That is why so many marriages get stressed... women don't understand that undeniable aspect of men. They have no inkling of what starving their men sexually does to their mind. There is NO SUBSTITUTE for sex with your wife if you are in a committed marriage.
They think its just sex...no biggie. Sex is huge for most husbands.
A woman can't possibly know how big a deal it is.
For two years straight... my sex life was on my waking mind 99.8% of the time (The .2% when we had sex 7 times in two years) . Even when I was doing other things half my brain was thinking about my lack of sex life. I'm surprised I still managed to thrive at work and raise my family. I strongly considered getting a divorce and leaving my two kids in a broken marriage. Also giving up my pets. That is how lack of sex affects men.
Now my mind is clear again because I strongly believe my sex life is fixed permanently. I put my wife "in charge" of getting lack of sex off my mind
she asked me on a date tomorrow
I'm happy again.
I'm going to go out on a limb with a scientific prediction.... most troubled/stressed marriages START down that path the moment when sex becomes less frequent than 2-3 times per week for an extended period of time.