Let the shredding begin! I don't shred, but I will point out inconsistencies...
[*]Educated (at least a BA)
90% reasonable. Education is important, though, many smart people are able to forgo due to being aggressive. But I am sure they could probably take a minimum knowledge test to get a waiver...
[*]Lives fairly close to me (I don't want to drive more than 1 hour to see them, as I have limited time as it is)
100% reasonable. LD never works (in my opinion)
[*]Make at least as much money as me (I want an equal)
20% reasonable. You don't want an equal, you want at LEAST an equal, whereas, he will be getting at MOST an equal. This is a common thread in society today where many women can look for a man who makes as much or more than him, while he likely can only find women making as much or less than him.
The other aspect is what you define as an equal. Sometimes less stress, free time and other aspects of life are fringe benefits and have value attaches that would needed to be converted into real dollars.
[*]No conservatives/church goers/hunters/NASCAR fans/
95% reasonable. I appreciate all these points, but you are somewhat grouping a segment together with this. I agree, but only 95% so.
75% reasonable. Clearly confidence is important, and that also ties into your successful requirement, but it's a broad term that is very subjective.
0% reasonable. We are all the same height lying down. Maybe it's my shorty bias in this, but it's amazing to me that someone would possibly deny a love of a lifetime due to being 1 or 2 inches taller than their mate.
[*]Neither fat nor a body builder (not attactive to me; bulky muscles look unnatural!)
90% reasonable. Attractiveness is important, and often heavy people get heavier as they get older. Musclebound people tend to focus on themselves as they get older.
[*]Comfortable with who he is
80% reasonable. As long as he makes as much money as you, is taller, in good shape but not too buff, is an atheist and is sure of himself.
[*]Not Type-A (I don't want to have to keep up all the time or always be on the go!)
15% reasonable, based on your other points. The likelihood of you finding someone else that covers all those other points and isn't Type A or Alpha is really a stretch.
[*]Makes me laugh - this one is really important!!!
75% reasonable. Is he a clown, is he there to amuse you? I assume the humor needs to be intentional?
This reminds me of the movie Singles. Do you want him to say "Bless You" when you sneeze?
Jokes aside, it's not like your "requirements" are really that far fetched, most people want the "max" for what they can get. It doesn't mean that someone else could eventually fill in some of those aspects as you grow with them. The problem is, if you never feel satisfied, you'll always be wondering what if...