11-21-2011, 09:02 AM
Join Date: Oct 2011
| | Re: Am i being a fool to believe him?
Originally Posted by mssherlock22
I would appreciate a guy's point of view.
I have posted my situation previously so I will just recap here. Approx 6 weeks ago I found out that my husband of 39 yrs marriage had been secretly FB, telephoning, e-mailing, & meeting for lunch(even when they weren't working together) with a female co-worker for 2 YEARS .
When I asked him about this, he swore that they were just friends & met & talked about work & her family problems and that there was no sex or romance involved.
At first, I was so shocked & hurt I wasn't sure the marriage would survive. But, he said that he would not conctact her again.
Am I being a trusting fool to beleive him? Both about the no sex & no future contact?
How do I get past the suspision that he may still be contacting her secretly?
I'm going through similar thing right now with my H. Is the OW married? If so contact OWH and see if he is aware of their "friendship"...I bet he's not. Big red flag!!
Did he get defensive when you confronted him? Mine did. Trying to turn it on me saying that I was probably doing the same thing and put his finger in my face and said " and I better not find out you are"!!!