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post #16 of 23 (permalink) Old 10-04-2016, 07:29 PM Thread Starter
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Re: How can prostitution work considering child support

That was sort of my point. A high priced escort is likely to be having sex with wealthy men. If she can arrange to get pregnant, it can represent a large amount of money.

BTW: I'm in no way implying that all, or even a majority of prostitutes would engage in dishonest behavior, I expect there are many who provide fair service in return for money. I'm just surprised that this isn't tried more often.

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Why be a prostitute if you can get pregnant by a high earner in a maximum child-support state like MA or CA, then collect enormous amounts of child support? You probably only have to have sex with him a few times, and it's perfectly legal and tax-free. And you can do it with more than one man and collect from them all!
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There was a high end club in Atlanta back in the 1990s. You rubbed shoulders with professional athletes (yes superstars). There were several back door operations at work (shocking LOL) other than serving drinks, emptying ash trays, and spinning tunes. Yes one was prostitution... but in different forms.

There was a very strict dress code. There were high end escorts and... groupies hoping to score a night with a superstar. Lo and behold... quite a few of the groupies "came up pregnant." Oh yeah... the superstars were quite pizzed off.

The superstars then were paying out monthly CS checks which could buy someone a nice 3500 sq ft home in a small city... each month. Granted homes were not nosebleed yet in the mid 1990s. What irked many of the players was not the fact they were paying out huge $ (well maybe a little bit), it was the fact the female was virtually living "high on the hog" on their dime.

The superstars stated they would not be as upset if they had a say in "where the money goes as far as the child's well-being." As much as it was intentional on the female's part to become impregnated by a millionaire, it was also the fault of the millionaires when they did not use good judgment.

I frequented this club in the 1990's. Had one friend who would go, was modest but dressed well and had a very high end charming personality. "Girl you saw me with..... told me I could have a night to remember for $1500." -Whaddya say?- "If the great sex includes you putting a roof on my house, sure I'm game."

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Franly, unless you're talking about a very wealthy father, a high end prostitute can make more working than she can from child support easy. (Yes, I knew/know some hookers) Not to mention the damage carrying and birthing a kid does to the body. Besides, a good escort doesn't need to have a kid to get her handson a man's money. She can use her skills, wrap him around her finger, get that ring, and then have babies.
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Re: How can prostitution work considering child support

If it was common for prostitutes and call girls to fool their clients, get pregnant and sue for child support men would be a lot more careful about using them. Apparently it's not very common at all.

I'm sure there are a few times this has happened, but it's rare.

As MJJEAN says, the women can make more money working the guys than carrying and raising babies.
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I agree that it doesn't seem common.

The explanation that they can make more money as call girls does make sense. Its quite possible that the really high priced ones are also ones who don't mind their work (considering the pay) and so are not looking for any possible way to get out of it.

I'm guessing that women who really dislike being prostitutes and are doing it out of desperation are not the really high priced ones, but I don't actually know anything about the business.

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If it was common for prostitutes and call girls to fool their clients, get pregnant and sue for child support men would be a lot more careful about using them. Apparently it's not very common at all.

I'm sure there are a few times this has happened, but it's rare.

As MJJEAN says, the women can make more money working the guys than carrying and raising babies.
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I agree that it doesn't seem common.

The explanation that they can make more money as call girls does make sense. Its quite possible that the really high priced ones are also ones who don't mind their work (considering the pay) and so are not looking for any possible way to get out of it.

I'm guessing that women who really dislike being prostitutes and are doing it out of desperation are not the really high priced ones, but I don't actually know anything about the business.
I believe that a good number of prostitutes are young women/girls who are sucked in by pimps. They are often plied with drugs and then get used by men to bring him money. Their pimps don't want the girls to have babies. They cannot make as much for him and then there is a kid to deal with. I'm sure that abortions are pretty common in these situations.

The high end call girls are a different story and generally make a LOT of money. Babies get in the way of that.
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The high end call girls are a different story and generally make a LOT of money. Babies get in the way of that.
They're also then tied to a client for 18+ years.
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