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Old 11-21-2011, 05:49 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Question for those who said 2-3 times a week.

A lot of the responses to the How often do you want/need sex? question said 2-3 times a week. So a serious question for you guys, I'll tell you why I ask after I hear some responses.

If you want/need or would be happy with 2-3 times a week, but your wife wanted to have sex at least once a day, would you? How long do you think you could realistically keep up the once a day schedule? Say there was a good variety of positions, locations, nothing was really off the table as far as trying new things, do you think you would still eventually get tired of sex with your wife doing it every day?
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Old 11-21-2011, 05:56 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I said once in ten, do I qualify to answer in this thread?

If yes, the answer to how long I would last is 1.

Although I think many men would have no problems in keeping up with once per day, you'll probably get opinions ranging from across the field so I'm unsure how useful and representative the data will be.
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Old 11-21-2011, 05:56 PM   #3 (permalink)
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A lot of the responses to the How often do you want/need sex? question said 2-3 times a week. So a serious question for you guys, I'll tell you why I ask after I hear some responses.

If you want/need or would be happy with 2-3 times a week, but your wife wanted to have sex at least once a day, would you? How long do you think you could realistically keep up the once a day schedule? Say there was a good variety of positions, locations, nothing was really off the table as far as trying new things, do you think you would still eventually get tired of sex with your wife doing it every day?
Based on how you are presenting it - variety, etc - I would certainly be willing to give it my best shot!

In my head, its things like kids, bad days at work, and just normal everyday life and marriages issues that would most likely get in the way. Physically - I don't see a problem.
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Old 11-21-2011, 06:04 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I've been having sex with her numerous times a week for 13 years and I'm not tired of it yet.

Sex every day? That would depend upon the intensity of the sex how long I could keep that up before needing a full nights sleep.

I'd give it a really good shot though!


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Old 11-21-2011, 06:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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A lot of the responses to the How often do you want/need sex? question said 2-3 times a week. So a serious question for you guys, I'll tell you why I ask after I hear some responses.

If you want/need or would be happy with 2-3 times a week, but your wife wanted to have sex at least once a day, would you? How long do you think you could realistically keep up the once a day schedule? Say there was a good variety of positions, locations, nothing was really off the table as far as trying new things, do you think you would still eventually get tired of sex with your wife doing it every day?
ideally for a man have fulltime job,2-3is good. but wife have need once a day is perfect to me no less.thats my problem.lol
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Old 11-21-2011, 06:32 PM   #6 (permalink)
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We have had times of 2 times a day for several months in a row....hope we get back to that. I would love once per day!!
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Old 11-21-2011, 06:32 PM   #7 (permalink)
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We are 50ish, have sex at least 6 days a week.... going on 6 years now!

There aren't "issues" that prevent us from enjoying each other. Family problem, money problem, work problem, every day dilemmas, kid issues..... leave them at the door to the bedroom, they aren't going to get solved while you are laying in bed anyway, might as well have fun!

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Old 11-21-2011, 06:41 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Only once per day? Forever.
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Old 11-21-2011, 07:28 PM   #9 (permalink)
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My husband only wants orgasms three or four times a week.

I want it every day.

Our solution is very simple. He just lets me have him. He doesn't need to do anything except having an erection for me.
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Old 11-21-2011, 10:39 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: Question for those who said 2-3 times a week.

Having orgasm daily is not physically difficult to do, most guys can probably attest to that at some point in their life of another (those fantastic cycles where you take care of business one night then the next night at about the same time you just spring to attention and feel like doing it again, like a circadian orgasm echo).

Having to go through the mental workout of seducing your wife everyday is a much, much more difficult undertaking. So the answer to your theoretical question depends on if seduction is required or not.
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Old 11-22-2011, 12:03 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Lol. In theory once a day would be awesome

In reality, I would be bagged after day 8 maybe?

In college, even when I had that youthful stamina, I was exhausted after 8 days straight from nasty monkey sex. Now I'm just older.
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I don't think it would be a problem espically if there is desire for the wife.and what would be the problem with just taking care of her if she wanted it and he didn't?

most men dream cum true. at least mine!!
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Old 11-22-2011, 07:42 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Question for those who said 2-3 times a week.

I bet 80% of males think they are up for the challenge, but also imagine that probably less then 10% could keep it up.

Most seem very happy or content with 2-3X's/wk.

And exactly what, where, how long do you want sex???? Probably as a male I'd be game to offer myself up for 15 minutes a day to ensure you get yours though (whether I get mine or not).

Shall I ask your age and how long you've been together?
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Old 11-22-2011, 07:50 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I had sex 5 times in 3 days this weekend. I could go once a day for a considerable amount of time. The problem isn't starting it would be finishing. If my wife is OK with me not finishing then we could go on this journey. Also, how often is the wife doing the heavy lifting?
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Old 11-22-2011, 09:00 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Default Re: Question for those who said 2-3 times a week.

I went thru a 3-4 month period of having sex 8 times a week (post affair hyperbonding), which meant we had sex twice a day many times. I actually started to get sore from that and we have simmered down to 4-5 times a week.
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