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post #151 of 163 (permalink) Old 11-14-2016, 10:01 PM
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

I don't at all. Light make up is cool, but not nearly as interesting as a woman who has natural beauty.

A woman who wakes up and is still beautiful is rare. Now, if you find one like that who likes football and MMA, she may be a keeper.

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I would venture to guess most men don't find plastic, overly made up glamour girls all that attractive. They just want someone who is reasonably good looking, that take care of themselves and don't require high maintenance. You are confused by what guys say with what guys do. Few of us want to be around high maintenance glamour queens that you aren't allowed to touch for fear of messing up the image.

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You are describing your preferences. Good for you. I believe you are in the minority.

Sex sells. So the images are calculated to reach as many of the target demographic as possible.

With regards to selling sex to straight men; you give the people what they want; not what they need.

If casually made-up, comfortably dressed, natural girls would sell more pin-ups 'n' porn; then that would have been the type of woman that dominated the sexual media.


















I think Marilyn (Norma Jean) and Pamela look beautiful before their transformations. But although, naturally beautiful; apparently natural beauty isn't enough.
And I think you are confusing fantasy with reality. Any real man knows the difference and would much rather be with a women with natural beauty (in their eyes) who can wake up in the morning, pull on a baseball cap and go to breakfast, than some high maintenance glam girl that requires a dump truck full of make up and couple of trowels to apply it before deigning to show her face to the public. Because men know the difference between fantasy and reality. There is nothing wrong with appealing to and engaging in fantasy once in a while, but most people (not just guys) realize that we all live in the real world. Knock yourself if you want to, but the only thing you will attract are fools who like your make up but could care less about the person.

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I think Marilyn (Norma Jean) and Pamela look beautiful before their transformations. But although, naturally beautiful; apparently natural beauty isn't enough.
I agree! If natural beauty were really considered beautiful, then why is it that virtually all women wear make-up, do the hair and nails thing, wear heels, and on an on.

Why do absolutely and perfectly beautiful women get all kinds of plastic surgery, dye jobs, wear extensive makeup? To be beautiful.
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Messed up teeth.
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Hammer toes. And if they've killed previous partners in their sleep.
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I agree! If natural beauty were really considered beautiful, then why is it that virtually all women wear make-up, do the hair and nails thing, wear heels, and on an on.

Why do absolutely and perfectly beautiful women get all kinds of plastic surgery, dye jobs, wear extensive makeup? To be beautiful.
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Hammer toes. And if they've killed previous partners in their sleep.
Sometimes these things just happen
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In GOD'S eyes all humans are beautiful HE created us all to be unique in all shapes and forms no matter for natural beauty, or natural ugliness. We are all tremendously loved the same, So we should follow after HIM with unconditional love for others no matter if they'll women wearing makeup or not !!!

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post #159 of 163 (permalink) Old 11-30-2016, 08:34 AM
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I think men find woman who are willing to have sex attractive -in the moment-thus they can find all sorts of "looks" acceptable for the short run....

High maintenance....my daughters who are both beyond beautiful take an hour to enhance their beauty before they go out at night.....I take 15 mins to get ready for a wedding.

I am not opposed to fighting the aging process or at least lightening its effects. I get fake eyelashes, mani/pedi and waxing before going on vacation -then I only need to apply lipgloss and sunscreen to be ready (in 2 min). That would appeal to the roll out of bed and put a baseball cap on group...

35 years ago (when it was not very commonplace) - I was 19 - I had a "boob" job. Nothing big just more than god gave me. I didnt like the way I looked in clothes and spent too much time thinking about it. I never had any problems getting boyfriends so it wasn't to attract men...(in fact I was very conscious of the fact I did NOT want that to be an obvious "feature". Saved up my $ from a part-time job researched the surgeons in the area and problem solved. I absolutely shudder to think what my parents must have thought of me. After 35 years of gravity they look pretty natural -lol. I dont consider myself plastic or fake any more than someone who dyes their hair or puts make up on. Its all an illusion.

Geez I love being anonymous! I never talk about that!

My dad had a pic of my mom from when they got married on a shelf. She was beautiful. Sometimes he'd shake his head near the end (when she was swollen up beyond imaginable with breathing mask and sores all over) stroke her hair and say "ach my wee kitten, how did it ever come to this...." I think he saw through all that and his love for her allowed him to see her beauty.
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

turn off: if they talk incessantly

and more recently, if you listen to some liberal radio or tv show, and then come in an parrot off the fake or racist ultra left news you just heard as if it were fact....
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

Inability to cook.

I'm not a bad cook, and I enjoy cooking. But I want a woman who will share the cooking chores 50/50 and at least be able to cook something edible. The inability to cook is a deal breaker for me.
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Guys, what personality traits in a woman are a turnoff to you?

It is self-centered women for me. I hate it when I take a woman out on a date and all she does is talk about herself only. I went on date a couple weeks ago and the lady only talked about her career, her and what she was doing and where she was going in life. I felt like I was conducting a job interview. Not once did she ask me about myself or where I was from, or what my likes are, or try to get to know me. Very off-putting.
bad hygiene.
extreme swearing.
lack of personal awareness.
caught in the cult of "positive thinking/love solves everything"
lack of personal responsibility
refusing to communicate (always talks at tangent)
hears but won't listen
fiscal ineptitude
won't participate in things
gross/overeating habit (eg >200kg)
blame gamer
user/person power seeker only interested in her own personal influence

...there's a reason I don't bother looking for dates much
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