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post #16 of 169 (permalink) Old 10-25-2016, 03:44 PM
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

Personality?

Nagging is easily WORST though being stuck up is a close second.

I don't even mind b!tchy too much as long as it's valid reasoning.

And I'd rather be alone than go anywhere near a "liberal" woman.

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Gotta be careful with the "stuck up" behavior. I have met some women who acted stuck up, when in reality they were just painfully shy and were actually really cool when you got to know them. Now... a haughty or imperious attitude? Definitely a turn-off.
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i ran into a similar type of thing when i was single.

i did the online dating thing, talked for a couple of weeks, then met for coffee. it went well, i thought.
she was a bit on the heavy side, but very pretty and smart.
we were together for a bout 2 hours, she showed interest, and i responded with interest and we agreed to meet again.

so i waited for her to call me, and a few days later she texted me to meet her at a club.

oh boy.....a date! i thought.

but no, i get there and it turns out there are like 3 other guys she invited like this was sort of a competition. the 'bachelorette'.

no bueno. that was the end of that. what are they thinking?
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It should be balanced conversation. Quid pro quo both ways.

But this particular date was not the only time that has happened. I've been on several dates where the woman just prattles off about all these awesome things she's doing, and all these awesome places shes going, and how great she is at her job, and all the awesome things she's done in the past and so on. I will smile and sit there and respond once in a while to be nice.

If a woman isn't interested in me I wish she would just say so, so I can forego the dessert and movie and just take her home.
When a woman behaves this way, she has pretty much told you she's not interested. Feel free to forgo the dessert & movie and drive to her home, slow the car down and throw her out.
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But this particular date was not the only time that has happened. I've been on several dates where the woman just prattles off about all these awesome things she's doing, and all these awesome places shes going, and how great she is at her job, and all the awesome things she's done in the past and so on. I will smile and sit there and respond once in a while to be nice.
Pro tip: If she doesn't ask many questions about you on a date then she's definitely not interested.

Slowing down the car kinda depends on how the date went imo.

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When a woman behaves this way, she has pretty much told you she's not interested. Feel free to forgo the dessert & movie and drive to her home, slow the car down and throw her out.
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

When I was younger if she didn't sleep with me the first date that was a complete turn off.
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

High Maintenance (a.k.a. gold digger). I was on a date months ago and was informed that if the relationship was to continue (read intimate) she had "standards" that needed to be met before she continues. I'm glad she had her own ride home because the date ended at that point.

Sorry, but who brings this up on the first damn date!
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High Maintenance (a.k.a. gold digger). I was on a date months ago and was informed that if the relationship was to continue (read intimate) she had "standards" that needed to be met before she continues. I'm glad she had her own ride home because the date ended at that point.

Sorry, but who brings this up on the first damn date!
Was she unbelievably hot or something? That seems like kind of an outrageous thing for anyone to say...some very attractive women have learned that they can get away with this sort of thing.
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High Maintenance (a.k.a. gold digger).
Rockon, as one of the High Maintenance, who happens to pay for all of her own "maintenance", I gotta correct your association above.

All Gold Diggers are High Maintenance but not all High Maintenance ladies are Gold Diggers.
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Bad teef
Smoking
Most tats (my stbx has a small one on her lower back and I didn't like it but whatevs)
Over exuberance, like a hearty laugh that doesn't stop
Trashiness
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

I'm wary of High maintenance, but in my experience most of the high maintenance women I've met pay for all of their maintenance. And @rockon , there is an obvious answer to your question.

There are some personality traits that automatically turn me on about women. I guess I'm feeling positive on this topic. I'm more attracted to someone who is independent enough to change her own tire, or saddle her own horse. There are other skills out there but I like a woman who has a good grasp on practical life skills.

I like a good sense of humor. English or Australian humor fits me better.

I prefer to talk with people who have a large vocabulary.
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Was she unbelievably hot or something? That seems like kind of an outrageous thing for anyone to say...some very attractive women have learned that they can get away with this sort of thing.
Yes, she was attractive, but as you mentioned I did find it outrageous. I got the feeling she felt entitled to this treatment and this actually irritated me more.
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Rockon, as one of the High Maintenance, who happens to pay for all of her own "maintenance", I gotta correct your association above.

All Gold Diggers are High Maintenance but not all High Maintenance ladies are Gold Diggers.
I can't argue!!
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Guys, what personality traits in a woman are a turnoff to you?

It is self-centered women for me. I hate it when I take a woman out on a date and all she does is talk about herself only. I went on date a couple weeks ago and the lady only talked about her career, her and what she was doing and where she was going in life. I felt like I was conducting a job interview. Not once did she ask me about myself or where I was from, or what my likes are, or try to get to know me. Very off-putting.
Did you talk about yourself? What things about yourself did you bring up and how did she respond to that?
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