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post #61 of 163 (permalink) Old 10-26-2016, 10:35 AM
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

Here's my short list…

A middle aged woman acts like a 20 year old...MLC
Still into partying and drinking too much. Always needs to be going out somewhere.
Has to be the center of attention…self-centered, narcissistic
A sense of entitlement, they deserve everything but return very little
High Maintenance…monetary and emotional, the ones who aren’t happy if you’re not spending money on them or doting over them
Women who expect to be constantly entertained and get bored if you don’t keep planning evermore elaborate dates and trips
Serial Daters, dating and sleeping with multiple men...high mileage
No career or passionate interests other than socializing
No money but spends whatever she has on looking like she does
Women who have let themselves go physically and have no interest in exercise or fitness.
Cell phone and Facebook addicts who constantly post new filtered selfies

Oh, and dishonesty!

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Daaaannngg....I must be super unattractive to most men....lol. No wonder...
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Doesn't care about her physical appearance - overweight, poor hygeine

Unfeminine in appearance and behavior - ultra short hair, prefers masculine clothing

Too independent

No respect for authority

Rebellious or reckless behavior and brags about it. My wife thinks it's cool that she lost her drivers license due to an over abundance of tickets for speeding, etc. it's not cool and it's not funny.

Poor impulse control

Any kind of immaturity. I hate it when any grown adult exhibits childish behavior. Whining, sulking, "getting even". Grow up already.
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Doesn't care about her physical appearance - overweight, poor hygeine

Unfeminine in appearance and behavior - ultra short hair, prefers masculine clothing

Too independent

No respect for authority

Rebellious or reckless behavior and brags about it. My wife thinks it's cool that she lost her drivers license due to an over abundance of tickets for speeding, etc. it's not cool and it's not funny.

Poor impulse control

Any kind of immaturity. I hate it when any grown adult exhibits childish behavior. Whining, sulking, "getting even". Grow up already.
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Re: What turns you off about a woman?

Nagging
"Responsive desire"
Words that don't match actions
Fearfulness (i.e. afraid of heights or fast bikes)
closed minded

ETA: Complaining. I really can't stand a complainer. Especially the type who's answer to a burnt out light bulb is to sit around in the dark and *****.

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The worst turn off for me is tattoos.I fcukin hate tattoos.
The other turn off is a woman who flirts with other guys to make you jealous.It doesn't work because I only know two women worth getting jealous over and one of them is gay.
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The worst turn off for me is tattoos.I fcukin hate tattoos.
The other turn off is a woman who flirts with other guys to make you jealous.It doesn't work because I only know two women worth getting jealous over and one of them is gay.
There is a single woman in my company who I would love to ask out. She is about 37 and smokin' hot. Cute, curvy little brunette with a nice ass and sexy short hair. She always dresses very nicely and in all other ways a lady.

But then, she has this tat on the underside of her right forearm: a skull with ribbons! WTF???

I feel like asking her..."Did you just hop off some hairy dude's Harley after the ride to Sturgis?"

Don't get me wrong, I love motorcycles and riding them, but why this lovely woman would choose such a gross image to "adorn" herself with is miles above my ability to fathom.
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1. Emotional to the point of being delusional
2. Feminazi/man-hater
3. Woman who is "one of the boys"
4. Dishonest
5. Back-biter
6. Demonising those who don't support Killary
7. Promiscuous/****ty (old school will never die)
8. And of course humility

I want a good looking woman but 'am not anal about it like some men I know. I agree there are some who don't care how they look but want a model. Having seen my fair share of shallow beauties I focus on character first.
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Any woman who doesn't like football or beer will NOT get my vote.

People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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What's wrong with being afraid of heights?


Honestly I'm only interested in a woman who can keep up. If I were looking again I'd only consider a woman who wanted to go on adventures with me. That would mostly involve climbing.

I guess a healthy fear would be fine. As long as it doesn't stop her from doing it.
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There is a single woman in my company who I would love to ask out. She is about 37 and smokin' hot. Cute, curvy little brunette with a nice ass and sexy short hair. She always dresses very nicely and in all other ways a lady.

But then, she has this tat on the underside of her right forearm: a skull with ribbons! WTF???

I feel like asking her..."Did you just hop off some hairy dude's Harley after the ride to Sturgis?"

Don't get me wrong, I love motorcycles and riding them, but why this lovely woman would choose such a gross image to "adorn" herself with is miles above my ability to fathom.
I met an old nun in Scotland a few years ago.She was born in New York and had entered a convent at nineteen.Im not sure how old she was at the time but at least eighty.
She had a tattoo.She told me she had only drank alcohol once,on her eighteenth birthday and her friends had all chipped in to pay for her tattoo so she got one.It was a shamrock just below her collar on her back.I only seen it because I was visiting a cemetery and she was working on the garden.
Ask this woman out.

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I wouldn't consider that high maintenance if she can afford it. If she's not making it my problem why would I have a problem with it?
But what about when it does become your problem, when she is late or takes so much time to get ready that it makes you late or won't participate in an activity because it might mess up her hair.

I used to take my ex to the beach every year. Not because I wanted to go to the beach, but because she wanted to go to the beach. We would drive 16 hours to go to the beach and she wouldn't even get in the water (ocean or pool) because it would mess up her hair. Screw that. I like women who like to dive in and get dirty. Fixing yourself up once in a while is great, but not all of the time to the detriment of enjoying life.
She spent at least an hour doing her hair everyday. It made it kind of hard to have any sympathy when she would whine about driving 1/2 hour to work, wanting to move to be closer and of course for me to pay for it all.

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I didn't get much of any words in. She mostly talked about her upcoming promotion at work for about the whole meal. Then when we went to an art museum afterwards she talked about how her ex husband was an art expert and she talked about her ex boyfriends and all her past travails. I think she asked me two questions about myself the whole date.

When she found out I was a blue collar kid from a small southwestern town she kind of got a disappointed look on her face. She came from a privileged background. I guess she assumed I was a simpleton so she didn't ask me any more questions after that.

It's okay though, because I felt no chemistry from the start. No loss. It was better than staying home doing nothing.
I've been out with men who do the same thing. I always bring up things about myself to see if they are just talking to fill the air and need the subject changed. There are always those who truly find themselves the most interesting topic of conversation.

What a bore.
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