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Responsibility for other people's decisions

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#1 ·
Been thinking lately, I seem to have made a few mental black holes in my brain this year. Here's the scenario: Let's say I have a friend with benefits, but she gets attached - but instead of continuing things, I cut loose - because I figure - I don't want to lead her on and break her heart, but then I end up struggling to find a new one, not to mention some FWBs are actually good, like my current one.

Where do we as men draw the line? Should we hold ourselves responsible for someone else's decisions? If one has made it perfectly clear that there can be no future, no relationship, no attachment, and the other person still falls in love, are we to be judged if we continue the "relationship"?
 
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Well guys, I don't know how to break this to the thread but well, I kinda developed feelings, and well she shares them. I don't know, I was quite adamant about getting involved emotionally but well, things just got emotional, for both of us.

I guess this thread has kinda become irrelevant to my own current state at least...
 
#49 ·
Well guys, I don't know how to break this to the thread but well, I kinda developed feelings, and well she shares them. I don't know, I was quite adamant about getting involved emotionally but well, things just got emotional, for both of us.



I guess this thread has kinda become irrelevant to my own current state at least...


No, this thread is very relevant. It should be a sticky.

Take it slow. Good luck.
 
#52 ·
Sorry chumley, but you are wrong. You are only responsible for doing something mean or doing something good. In the end it is the other person who is responsible for their reaction to it. You have no control over that.
 
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