Re: What did you do for your wife today?
Since Constable Odo is banned, I will contribute in his stead.
He has a saying, "a lady must always have fresh flowers." He will buy flowers once every few weeks, which I put on our breakfast table. I work remotely from home often, so when I look at them, I think of him. I told him this once and he responded, "that's the idea." I still have a rose preserved from the first bouquet he brought me when we were dating. He is the first man to buy me flowers on the regular.
He bought me the gift of an annual membership to a massage spa last valentines day. I had never had a massage in my life before I received that gift.
He makes sure I eat. I am a stress starver and eat mostly salads, so he makes sure I get enough protein in my diet. I work for long hours and can literally forget to eat when I have too many things on my mind. I'm definitely not malnourished but it's nice to know he is looking out for me.
"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."
~ Abraham Maslow