Ok this is an embarrassing topic but let me prefaces that this is not about me but my cousin.
My cousin is late 20s and has never had problems getting men. The problem is escalating it to a serious relationship. I personally think it's bc she LOVES sex and is aggressive and is a "freak" too early in the relationship that men dont respect her and no longer view her as a wife or mother type. So my question to men... you start dating this awesome girl and she let's say... gives you oral all the time and swallows every time or let's you go on her face and loves it, can you see this as a serious relationship? Is this marriage material? It seems from watching her that the relationship starts out so heavy in sex and it stays all about sex and doesn't develop into a more adult serious relationship.
So let's get back to you @katiecrna
. What do you think of the dialog so far? You've gotten lots of opinions.
You've said she has low self esteem and probably does this to keep a man. You've indicated above that the relationship stays all about sex.
Regardless of people's opinions about the nature of the sex, I see the low self esteem and lack of other relationship development being really key here.
Can I ask a few questions?
Do you think she tries to develop the relationship non-sexually?
Does she try to go on dates that require talking and getting to know each other?
Does she go out as a couple with other friends and shoot the bull or whatever she and her friends normally do?
Does she even have girlfriends that she hangs around with?
How long do her relationships generally last?
Where does she meet these guys?
Does she ever get into a relationship with someone she first develops a friendship with (like coworker, neighbor, friend of a friend)?
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