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post #196 of 198 (permalink) Old 03-11-2017, 02:59 PM
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Re: "Sl*tty sex"

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She wants a serious relationship for sure. She just doesn't get why it never works out. I'm the opposite, I'm a nice Christian girl who believes holding out for the "girl one" is a better approach to winning a respectful man.
No you are correct. It sounds odd to say but most men would reconsider if their first couple times is like with a prostitute - and they have prostitute for that! You can blame men whatever you want but it's fact. Tell your cousin it doesn't hurt to tame herself down at first. After all when she's in a marriage she would have to sacrifice some other things too.
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Re: "Sl*tty sex"

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Ok this is an embarrassing topic but let me prefaces that this is not about me but my cousin.
My cousin is late 20s and has never had problems getting men. The problem is escalating it to a serious relationship. I personally think it's bc she LOVES sex and is aggressive and is a "freak" too early in the relationship that men dont respect her and no longer view her as a wife or mother type. So my question to men... you start dating this awesome girl and she let's say... gives you oral all the time and swallows every time or let's you go on her face and loves it, can you see this as a serious relationship? Is this marriage material? It seems from watching her that the relationship starts out so heavy in sex and it stays all about sex and doesn't develop into a more adult serious relationship.

If the woman I was dating had a high, crazy, aggressive, adventurous sex drive, yes, I would consider marrying her because I too am HD adventurous. That physical, sexual match would be there from the start. That connection would be there from the beginning and she could relax, not worry that I'm leaving her and we would go from there.

As long as its not bait and switch. Meaning, sex to get the guy, get married, then the sex drops right off.....

And remember that the sex drive will taper off a bit as we get older.

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post #198 of 198 (permalink) Old 03-11-2017, 03:21 PM
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Re: "Sl*tty sex"

I personally LOVE kinky sex. So as long as I felt she would remain monogamous, and could clean up enough to the to see mother, I would marry her.

Maybe her interest in kinky sex is giving off the vibe that one man would not be enough for her, and the men are bailing because of that worry
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