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post #1 of 198 (permalink) Old 12-10-2016, 08:24 AM Thread Starter
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"Sl*tty sex"

Ok this is an embarrassing topic but let me prefaces that this is not about me but my cousin.
My cousin is late 20s and has never had problems getting men. The problem is escalating it to a serious relationship. I personally think it's bc she LOVES sex and is aggressive and is a "freak" too early in the relationship that men dont respect her and no longer view her as a wife or mother type. So my question to men... you start dating this awesome girl and she let's say... gives you oral all the time and swallows every time or let's you go on her face and loves it, can you see this as a serious relationship? Is this marriage material? It seems from watching her that the relationship starts out so heavy in sex and it stays all about sex and doesn't develop into a more adult serious relationship.
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In my dating days, it really was this simple:

If there is a bright, committed, honorable, classy person behind the ****tiness, she is a keeper.

If she falls short in any of those categories, she is good for about two to four weeks.

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I can see what you are saying with this, but I don't think the issue is your cousins sexual appetite, rather her bad man picker to share it with...of course the first question would have to be...is she bothered by the fact that she is not in a serious relationship? Or is she just having fun, and enjoying how things are?

My wife is pretty sexually charged, loves sex in all different kinds of ways including the things you listed above, made no bones about from the very beginning of our relationship...we have been together five years now..

"Let's never stop having sex. We're so good at it, we OWE it to sex to never stop having it."
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She wants a serious relationship for sure. She just doesn't get why it never works out. I'm the opposite, I'm a nice Christian girl who believes holding out for the "girl one" is a better approach to winning a respectful man.
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There are many reasons that relationships fail. Why do you suspect her sexuality is the cause? Are you projecting because you personally do not approve?
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I'm not a guy I don't know how they think. But I can't imagine one blowing a load in their new girlfriends face and thinking... I want to grow old with her and I want her to be the mother of my children. maybe men don't think like that lol
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Marriage material, yes.
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Well, I married your cousin. Turns out she is BSC. Maybe that is why the relationships never continue.
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Well, I married your cousin. Turns out she is BSC. Maybe that is why the relationships never continue.
what is a BSC?
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I'm not a guy I don't know how they think. But I can't imagine one blowing a load in their new girlfriends face and thinking... I want to grow old with her and I want her to be the mother of my children. maybe men don't think like that lol
Some men do, some men don't. Much like women, it all depends on what is important to them in a relationship, and the trick is picking someone on the same page, looking for the same things.

For myself, an active and intense sex life is a very important part of any relationship I would want to be in.

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what is a BSC?
It's a guess but I think it's batsh*t crazy.
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I'm not a guy I don't know how they think. But I can't imagine one blowing a load in their new girlfriends face and thinking... I want to grow old with her and I want her to be the mother of my children. maybe men don't think like that lol
The hard part is we are all different.

Some men value a sexual appetite at the exclusion of other qualities.

Some need to see other traits.

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Either she picks $h1tty men, or maybe she has a rep that attracts the wrong type of guys thinking she is an easy go
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In my younger days I would have had a deep meaningful relationship with your cousin,for about a fortnight.These "come in my face"girls are great fun for a while but they regard sex so lightly that they can never be trusted.Now back then I didn't give a damn anyway,I was into ons or short and sweet relationships and have only ever asked one girl to be exclusive.Your cousins biggest problem is that she probably has a reputation for anything goes sex and the type of guys confident enough to go out with her are not looking for anything long term.
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