Re: Men, if you do *not* care how much money
I do not care how much she brings in, but we've never lived paycheck to paycheck, so it really doesn't matter. Excluding when she went back to get advanced degrees, she's always worked, so it was never "it's your money" that we were living off of, for the most part.
At this point in our lives, we could live on her income alone as well. That wasn't always the case, but I don't know that it ever bothered her that I didn't care how much she made, or if she made anything at all. She was never going to be a SAHM - it's just not in her DNA.