Re: Overheard an awkward conversation
I will reply based on my short resume.
I would agree that the average is six inches. This is based purely on the ones I have had the privilege of seeing and handling. The vast majority of those never made it to the glory hole, so I can't speak for their feeling on PIV. As far as PIV, the one that felt the best was also the longest I have ever seen, he was well above my stated average. He also was ten years older than me, excellent at foreplay, and just flat out knew how to please a woman, and his focus was doing so. I'm guessing the size was not the reason he felt the best. I'm almost positive of that.
The smallest I ever encountered was two inches at full attention. I truly didn't know that could be possible for an over six foot tall adult male. I'm wasn't sure what I could do with that. Yet he came off confident about his teeny weeny, and had never mentioned any concern over it. Good for him...he had kids, so somebody took that bad boy a few times. He did say his XW didn't like sex.
All the above being said, I believe there are so many factors at play here. Size is one. Others to me are attraction, foreplay, skills, emotion, comfort level with partner, variety, and just flat out actual love being involved (or not.). Where size falls into that list, its certainly not first for me.
For instance, my XH was average size. He and I were very experienced from knowing each others bodies so well after so many years. So I thought he was good in the sack.
My DH is well hung. He also is thicker, which feels wonderful inside me. DH has a limited skill set, is LD and not adventurous in trying anything new. Yet, he by far is the person I have been the most attracted too and desired in my life. So we are trying hard to meet each other's needs. We are a work in progress.