Overheard an awkward conversation - Talk About Marriage
The Men's Clubhouse Talk about life's dilemmas.

User Tag List

 151Likes
Closed Thread
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
post #1 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-25-2016, 11:15 PM Thread Starter
Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2016
Posts: 49
Overheard an awkward conversation

So my wife and one of her girlfriends were having a few glasses of wine, and while I was in my office I overheard a very awkward part of their conversation… The other woman was complaining about her husband, quite openly, and specifically about the size of his penis. Saying that it was simply too small. Now granted, if we are all honest I don't think there are many loin lumberjacks around, but I'm wondering if she is being fair to her guy, or if the word about average is true. My wife has zero complaints, and has said it multiple times, but I'm wondering what is really average in this department?

I know, it's kind of an awkward question, but living life outside of porn what is the threshold for being concerned?


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
LongParFour is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
post #2 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-25-2016, 11:52 PM
Member
 
Spicy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2016
Location: Depends on time of year
Posts: 706
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by LongParFour View Post
So my wife and one of her girlfriends were having a few glasses of wine, and while I was in my office I overheard a very awkward part of their conversation… The other woman was complaining about her husband, quite openly, and specifically about the size of his penis. Saying that it was simply too small. Now granted, if we are all honest I don't think there are many loin lumberjacks around, but I'm wondering if she is being fair to her guy, or if the word about average is true. My wife has zero complaints, and has said it multiple times, but I'm wondering what is really average in this department?

I know, it's kind of an awkward question, but living life outside of porn what is the threshold for being concerned?


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
2 inches would be a threshold to be concerned....

Ciao,

Spicy
Spicy is offline  
post #3 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-25-2016, 11:57 PM Thread Starter
Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2016
Posts: 49
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spicy View Post
2 inches would be a threshold to be concerned....


Hahaha


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
LongParFour is offline  
post #4 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 12:09 AM
Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2014
Posts: 2,864
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

What's the laughing about?

You're worrying about nothing.
Really. Your weenie is not too teenie.

Don't be ocd about it. You'd know already if there was a huge problem
Evinrude58 is offline  
post #5 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 01:32 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Dec 2016
Posts: 36
For two years I ran a clinic that specialized in erectile dysfunction; age management and premature ejaculation. I used to treat patients with ICP (look it up) and as part of this job, I always had to inspect the penises once they got hard. Over these two years I probably handled at least 200 different ones.. One thing that is important to know is that the size is not fixed.. the firmness is variable as well, so good blood flow, enough twstosterone and intact nerves makes it harder.
I also treated men that prostate removed and no erection in years and after 15 minutes and an erection harder than they have had in decades, many of them started crying. I have probably helped salvaging countless marriages and gotten many back in shape.

When measuring it, make sure it is fully erect and measure it FROM TOP (dorsally) to the meatus. "Average" length is between 5-6 inches, but KNOW there are many factors that can influence this. Lack of sex in itself will also affect it, but less so than our skeletal muscles.

Finally, if I overheard something like that, I would have expected whoever I dated at that time to never speak to that women again. It's just some things that are very inflammatory and this is definitely the top one for a man, IMHO.
WoundedTiger is offline  
post #6 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 05:46 AM
Forum Supporter
 
Satya's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 2,585
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Not every penis is the same, just as every vagina is different.

If two puzzle pieces don't come together neatly, there's bound to be some frustration from one or both parties.

She could have valid feelings (hopefully her delivery was not unkind). But IMO, that discussion should be private between her and her husband. If you're not willing to discuss a topic openly with your SO right next to you, you shouldn't bring it up at all.

"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."

~ Abraham Maslow
Satya is offline  
post #7 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 08:33 AM
Member
 
She'sStillGotIt's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2016
Location: Back east
Posts: 698
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by Evinrude58 View Post
Don't be ocd about it. You'd know already if there was a huge problem
LOL.

No he wouldn't.

The husband being discussed by the OP's wife and her friend probably has no idea about his wife's disappointment in his size. That's just an observation some of us women NEVER, EVER admit, even if things get incredibly ugly and there's a nasty split. Even THEN, some of us never say a word. Trust me.
She'sStillGotIt is offline  
post #8 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 08:36 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Feb 2016
Posts: 468
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by LongParFour View Post
So my wife and one of her girlfriends were having a few glasses of wine, and while I was in my office I overheard a very awkward part of their conversation… The other woman was complaining about her husband, quite openly, and specifically about the size of his penis. Saying that it was simply too small. Now granted, if we are all honest I don't think there are many loin lumberjacks around, but I'm wondering if she is being fair to her guy, or if the word about average is true. My wife has zero complaints, and has said it multiple times, but I'm wondering what is really average in this department?

I know, it's kind of an awkward question, but living life outside of porn what is the threshold for being concerned?


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
My DW always complained I was too big.
Mr.StrongMan is offline  
post #9 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 11:33 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Dec 2015
Posts: 6,304
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

You need to expose it to the other man.
225985 is offline  
post #10 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 11:35 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Dec 2015
Posts: 6,304
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr.StrongMan View Post
My DW always complained I was too big.


Are you really too big or was she just using that as an excuse?

If you are big, then it really is a f***ing shame you are not enjoying yourself with a woman that loves you.
225985 is offline  
post #11 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 11:37 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Dec 2015
Posts: 6,304
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by WoundedTiger View Post
For two years I ran a clinic that specialized in erectile dysfunction; age management and premature ejaculation. I used to treat patients with ICP (look it up) and as part of this job, I always had to inspect the penises once they got hard. Over these two years I probably handled at least 200 different ones.. One thing that is important to know is that the size is not fixed.. the firmness is variable as well, so good blood flow, enough twstosterone and intact nerves makes it harder.
I also treated men that prostate removed and no erection in years and after 15 minutes and an erection harder than they have had in decades, many of them started crying. I have probably helped salvaging countless marriages and gotten many back in shape.

When measuring it, make sure it is fully erect and measure it FROM TOP (dorsally) to the meatus. "Average" length is between 5-6 inches, but KNOW there are many factors that can influence this. Lack of sex in itself will also affect it, but less so than our skeletal muscles.

Finally, if I overheard something like that, I would have expected whoever I dated at that time to never speak to that women again. It's just some things that are very inflammatory and this is definitely the top one for a man, IMHO.


I know a woman who probably handled 200 different ones over the years. (Which weren't that many).
225985 is offline  
post #12 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 11:39 AM
Banned
 
Join Date: Feb 2016
Posts: 468
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by 225985 View Post
Are you really too big or was she just using that as an excuse?

If you are big, then it really is a f***ing shame you are not enjoying yourself with a woman that loves you.
I am big for her. She's a very small woman. And the fact that we never have sex only creates a "bigger" problem for her since she is getting tighter by her abstinence. And yes, it is a darn shame I'm not having sex with a woman who loves me. It's driving me crazy. Of course, I'm sure she's using the size as one more excuse for her to not have sex with me.
Mr.StrongMan is offline  
post #13 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 12:47 PM
Member
 
ConanHub's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Abroad. Currently Arizona.
Posts: 7,581
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

The threshold is somewhere between your confidence and prowess in bed combined with some factor concerning your wife, her confidence, sexual prowess and satisfaction sexually.

Pretty much between you and your mate.

Mrs. Conan could have a good time with a 3 inch wang that wasn't a toothpick. A very thin penis is probably the least satisfying from a tactile standpoint.

But from a aesthetic and foreplay standpoint, big units are more fun.
ConanHub is offline  
post #14 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 01:19 PM
Banned
 
Join Date: Dec 2016
Posts: 36
Quote:
Originally Posted by 225985 View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by WoundedTiger View Post
For two years I ran a clinic that specialized in erectile dysfunction; age management and premature ejaculation. I used to treat patients with ICP (look it up) and as part of this job, I always had to inspect the penises once they got hard. Over these two years I probably handled at least 200 different ones.. One thing that is important to know is that the size is not fixed.. the firmness is variable as well, so good blood flow, enough twstosterone and intact nerves makes it harder.
I also treated men that prostate removed and no erection in years and after 15 minutes and an erection harder than they have had in decades, many of them started crying. I have probably helped salvaging countless marriages and gotten many back in shape.

When measuring it, make sure it is fully erect and measure it FROM TOP (dorsally) to the meatus. "Average" length is between 5-6 inches, but KNOW there are many factors that can influence this. Lack of sex in itself will also affect it, but less so than our skeletal muscles.

Finally, if I overheard something like that, I would have expected whoever I dated at that time to never speak to that women again. It's just some things that are very inflammatory and this is definitely the top one for a man, IMHO.


I know a woman who probably handled 200 different ones over the years. (Which weren't that many).
. HEJE, yeah it's always fun when I tell people I have gotten more than 300 different men harder than they have been in decades, LOL
WoundedTiger is offline  
post #15 of 98 (permalink) Old 12-26-2016, 05:44 PM
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,531
Re: Overheard an awkward conversation

Quote:
Originally Posted by Spicy View Post
2 inches would be a threshold to be concerned....
Is that length or diameter?
Cooper is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Closed Thread

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now



In order to be able to post messages on Talk About Marriage, you must first register. Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.

Important! Your username will be visible to the public next to anything you post and could show up in search engines like Google. If you are concerned about anonymity, PLEASE choose a username that will not be recognizable to anyone you know.

User Name:
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.

Password:


Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.

Email Address:
OR

Log-in









Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



Thread Tools Search this Thread
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search



Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Could you have this conversation with your partner? caruso General Relationship Discussion 30 10-04-2016 10:15 PM
My wife awkward silence Dklt Considering Divorce or Separation 19 10-02-2016 08:55 PM
How to start the D-Word Conversation unhappy2000 Considering Divorce or Separation 14 04-30-2016 11:35 AM
Tips for Starting a Hard Conversation with Your Spouse VS Glen Home Page Feature News 0 03-30-2016 03:10 PM

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

 
For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome