Re: Did any of you marry the sweet "boring" girl?
Although not boring per se, I did marry a rather sedate woman when compared to others I dated. Her idea of excitement is a walk in the park, where I enjoy mountain biking and the such. I'm not overly wild either, but definitely more than she is. Can I say she is a better wife than someone more wild? Probably not. I think every person should be taken on their own merits, not based on how boring they may seem to be.
It is common to fantasize about what could have been, especially after having a bad marriage, but just realize that every relationship has hurtles and hardships. There's no guarantee that this other woman would have been a perfect spouse.
"You are talking about the nonsensical ravings of a lunatic mind!" Victor Von Frankenstein