Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Did any of you marry the sweet "boring" girl?
I married a 20 year old virgin who never even had a steady boyfriend or tried oral sex before. She has a good heart and believed in the old fashion role of a wife. She did not do much due to her alcoholic and strict father. She was the sweetest girl I even dated and so unlike the girls I had dated and got engaged to. I went for sexually experienced and kinky girls who were cheerleaders or ex cheerleaders. The girl I lived with for the year before I met my wife was an ex cheerleader and sex addict. She was kinky as heck.
To go from a sex machine to a very petite virgin was a complete break in who I normally dated. I just fell in love with her the first time I saw her on a train. 3 weeks later we were engaged and married 8 months after that. She came from an abusive unemployed father and house in disrepair. She was so grateful for me marrying her and I wanted to show her that the rest of her life will not be lousy as it had been living with violent alcoholic parents.
She was sweet and unsullied when I met her. Within a month after meeting me, we were engaged and she was no longer a virgin. She was smoking weed daily with me and our friends. I taught her all about sex and she was an eager and good learner. Seven years after we married she was wife swapping, foursomes, threesomes and more with me after realizing that girls were attracted to me and seducing me until I gave in. Now I had money and success as well as good looks and many women are attracted to at least one of those things. Rather than leave me, knowing I was poly before we married, she decided to join me. We dabbled in various forms of group sex together, but ultimately did not like having sex with others. What we liked was the sex my wife and I had when we got home. That was the time that my wife was struggling with her sexuality and started to invite girls over for a threesome using me as bait.
Long story short, we ended up moving in my wife's best friend since childhood. She became our lover for most of our 44 year of marriage. They girls were both sweet but sexually adventurous, saying yes to anything I asked them to do sexually. I can watch a porn movie and say, been there and done that but with two girls not one. My wife is still sweet and everyone likes her, even babies and animals. She will do anything for a friend. For the last 7 years we have been monogamous since moving away from our girlfriend. At our age monogamy fits our age and medical condition, so after a few years of adjusting to just two in bed, we have made it work using a new fetish that fits our current circumstance. We never were into vanilla sex, never. So I married a sweet girl who did nothing. Had no boyfriends and had to go straight home after school due to her abusive father who beat her for anything she did that displeased him. To her friends she was boring. To me she was boring since I always was with hot and very sexually active girls. In a few years I took her to the dark side. She is no longer boring but still sweet as the day I met her 45 years ago. I gave her the lifestyle she never dreamed she would have and she gave me the sex life that many men would kill for. Sweet and kinky, not boring anymore.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.
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