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post #31 of 81 (permalink) Old 12-29-2016, 06:21 AM
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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

What to do?

Dude, you don't have time to post online...Go give your wife more foreplay. You owe it to the world!

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Dude, you don't have time to post online...Go give your wife more foreplay. You owe it to the world!
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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

Joking aside, try a different position. Have her keep her legs together, and put yours outside of hers - the reverse of how you'd normally do missionary. That should tighten things up so the wetness doesn't matter so much. She may have to arch her hips up so you can enter, or enter first and then switch leg positions.

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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

It's hot where I live so sometimes my partner and I need the fan on to keep cool. When its positioned directly on us during sex however it dries me up like the Sahara. We have to angle it away to avoid that.

So perhaps you can try having the fan on, positioned towards the two of you?
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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

Also, when we've been at it for a bit and I can sense there's less friction, he really likes it if I spread my middle and index finger over my opening (like an upside down V). Or if I make a circle with my thumb and index finger over the opening. It depends what position we're in. That way my fingers provide some friction for his member as he's sliding through them into me.
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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

Is she on the pill?

My doctor friend suggests that the pill could affect lubrication in both ways. Higher estrogen level in the combination pill can increase lubrication while higher levels of progesterone can cause vaginal dryness. Other doctors in the house please chime in.
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If you know how to manipulate the gspot with your middle and ring finger, do it. Watch the floodgates open. Enjoy.

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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

Avoid using a tampon.
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post #42 of 81 (permalink) Old 12-30-2016, 07:03 PM
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Bahahaha!!! I dont venture over here very often but when I do I'm always glad. This is the funniest thing I've read in a long time- laughed out loud!

No offence to OP- along with the humour you got a lot of good advice....
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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

If she doesn't realize there is so much wetness that you are losing friction, you may have to discuss or explain it to her, so that you can then periodically stop and just wipe things up with a clean cloth you have handy for this reason. This happens to me sometimes too and it is a quick fix. If you just pull out, wipe yourself off, then dab the cloth all around her (don't scrub at it, this will irritate the delicate tissues), then when you go back in you are kind of dry and that will soak up some of the excess on the inside of her. Usually this will correct the balance for awhile...but if things get soppy again after a bit, stop and repeat the process.

Her being this wet means she is healthy and fully hydrated, so that is a good thing. You don't want to stop the wetness from coming forth, just dry it up as it comes out so that the excess isn't around to keep things too slippery.

You may also play around with some lubes, as some of them seem to sort of absorb my own moisture and then the viscosity of the combination of lube + my wetness has more friction than just me alone. Though applying lube would have to happen before I get too wet for this to work. So basically, applying lube to him and then going to PIV before I am too wet is the optimal time for this.

She may or may not realize there is a loss of friction. When you are very wet and enjoying sex, sometimes that friction feeling comes and goes. Since it does make a difference to how it feels for you, it should be something you explain to her though, since it is so easy to fix.

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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

I'm also extremely good at getting women wet.

I spill beer 🍺 on them...
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post #45 of 81 (permalink) Old 01-01-2017, 10:13 AM
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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

Can I ask a rather sensitive question: do you masturbate a lot? Perhaps the friction you're looking for is a result of you masturbating with a lot of pressure/frequently? If you hold off on masturbating for a few days, does it feel better when you have sex with your wife? I'm just wondering if this is an overstimulation thing. It's an issue a few guys have had on this forum.
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