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post #61 of 81 (permalink) Old 01-03-2017, 08:31 PM
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Why? Girl-goo is yummy... I wish I could freeze it and make popsicles with it.

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Yes....besides....most of us guys love that glazed donut look.

It's a lubricant!
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I have girlfriends who are like I can't have sex with my husband bc I need a wax, I have 1/25 of an inch of hair on my vagina! He can't see me like this!!! And @bandit.45 is talking about making girl-goo popsicles... that's perspective for ya
Hair today, gone tomorrow....who cares?
We are after the important parts.
The 'girl-goo' is a bonus, and a sign of a job well done!
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My wife gets very very wet during Foreplay and when time comes to penetrate I feel nothing it's like a sopping wet sponge
Jokes on you bro, your wife has been secretly pissing on you for years!

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Why? Girl-goo is yummy... I wish I could freeze it and make popsicles with it.

You women don't understand what primordial animals we men are.
Some of us do.

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Some of us do.
Unfortunately you and others like you I believe are oddities FW (and I mean that as the biggest compliment possible).

Most are like katiecrna's friends. And my wife. Who cant bring herself to touch herself down there because its "icky" and "sticky" or whatever. And semen cant be considered "natural" or even sexy because it comes from my body, because you know other stuff does too.

As to the OP I dont get it. As Bandit and others have said we men tend to take it as a compliment when our woman is super wet. I think its that whole "yep I did that" ego thing.

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Unfortunately you and others like you I believe are oddities FW (and I mean that as the biggest compliment possible).

Most are like katiecrna's friends. And my wife. Who cant bring herself to touch herself down there because its "icky" and "sticky" or whatever. And semen cant be considered "natural" or even sexy because it comes from my body, because you know other stuff does too.
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I think at TAM we have a certain sub-section of people, and we do not see a sample of random people, but mostly people who are having marriage issues, and usually sexual issues.

Therefore, I don't think we can go by what is said at TAM to explain things in the rest of the married and sexual world. In other words, I think I'm not as much of an oddity as it would appear. At TAM I may be, compared to many of your wives.

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Re: Wife gets very wet during Foreplay any idea what to do?

I guess I'm an oddity too then

I think a lot of other women are this way too, but might worry about being slvt shamed if they admit to certain things they enjoy.


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try to fold her up, that always tightens the vagina, and a tight wet vag, is a slice of heaven not to be missed !
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I have girlfriends who are like I can't have sex with my husband bc I need a wax, I have 1/25 of an inch of hair on my vagina! He can't see me like this!!! And @bandit.45 is talking about making girl-goo popsicles... that's perspective for ya
Hey I don't mind a little hair in my Popsicle...boy needs his protein.
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I guess I'm an oddity too then

I think a lot of other women are this way too, but might worry about being slvt shamed if they admit to certain things they enjoy.


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This is why some women....SOME....end up getting into affairs with men who, given any other situation, they would never be caught in public dead with. They get involved with men who are willing to let them be "themselves" in bed, while they do the prude act with their husbands.
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Oh I feel you on this one. I'm the wife and BOTH me and my husband have has times where we are like it's just too damned wet down there. We keep a towel with us and sometimes he will get me to "finish" a few times first so I swell up even more. Just an FYI, we noticed after a while that it only really happened around the time I was ovulating, so try having sex right after her period as women are most dry at that point in there cycles. I get a little over Eager haha. But don't be upset by it, revel in it. If ur widens like me, then she LOVES having you and gets crazy excited for you. And seriously, give her a handful of orgasms first, then go wild. Works for me
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Can I ask a rather sensitive question: do you masturbate a lot? Perhaps the friction you're looking for is a result of you masturbating with a lot of pressure/frequently? If you hold off on masturbating for a few days, does it feel better when you have sex with your wife? I'm just wondering if this is an overstimulation thing. It's an issue a few guys have had on this forum.
no I do not I used to i just think she is over sexual throughout the day and get and stays wet all day
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Oh I feel you on this one. I'm the wife and BOTH me and my husband have has times where we are like it's just too damned wet down there. We keep a towel with us and sometimes he will get me to "finish" a few times first so I swell up even more. Just an FYI, we noticed after a while that it only really happened around the time I was ovulating, so try having sex right after her period as women are most dry at that point in there cycles. I get a little over Eager haha. But don't be upset by it, revel in it. If ur widens like me, then she LOVES having you and gets crazy excited for you. And seriously, give her a handful of orgasms first, then go wild. Works for me
thank I give her orgasm often I think it's her being extremely turned on and giving her oral doesn't help out the wetness I will try the drying move next time
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This is why some women....SOME....end up getting into affairs with men who, given any other situation, they would never be caught in public dead with. They get involved with men who are willing to let them be "themselves" in bed, while they do the prude act with their husbands.
Um....I guess? But there are MANY women, not "some", who are just very sexual, period. So some of them get married and stay faithful and have great sex lives with their partner, some end up sexually frustrated forever because their partner isn't as sexual as they are but they remain faithful, some have several relationships over a lifetime and have great sex with some of them and not so great with others, some are straight up hookers.

I don't see why there has to be this connection directly between "woman who enjoys sex" and "cheater". I don't make that connection for men, either. Some people are cheaters and some aren't. How sexual they are is actually irrelevant (except to the type of cheating sometimes...as in, if a guy or girl has some addiction to something, they will likely keep going back to it over and over regardless of harm to their lives...yet that is more about addiction than cheating OR how sexual a person is).

And a lot of not very sexual people have affairs, especially EA's but also plenty of PA's. People who aren't very sexual can become suddenly quite sexual at the onset of a new relationship.

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I think at TAM we have a certain sub-section of people, and we do not see a sample of random people, but mostly people who are having marriage issues, and usually sexual issues.

Therefore, I don't think we can go by what is said at TAM to explain things in the rest of the married and sexual world. In other words, I think I'm not as much of an oddity as it would appear. At TAM I may be, compared to many of your wives.
Again apologies for the use of the term oddity. For you and HB50. I think people see that and can immediately think WTF is this guy calling me odd for? I truly meant good oddity like a LaBron James. A 6'9" 250lb man who has the quickness and agility of a man that is a foot shorter. Hes just that odd and rare. Like a unicorn. Maybe consider yourself a Unicorn. People like those.

Also I probably did a poor job in communicating how I thought you and others are "unicorns". In accepting our primordial natures. Hell in most likely having them yourselves. In reveling in the naturalness and messiness of sex.

This topic has just been a trigger for me lately as my wife is horrible in getting past or even enjoying the "messiness" of sex. Can't touch herself as its "sticky" and "icky". Semen is gross. etc etc.

So reading a man complaining about his wife being too wet down there and acting like its "icky" just kind of triggered me.

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