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Old 12-10-2011, 07:06 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My husband has his vasectomy just 3 days ago and the procedure went so well that my hubby only took medication the first day. Yesterday he didn't even need ibuprofen. Amazing! He was up walking around yesterday doing things here and there. Today his plans are to change the oil in the Pilot at his parents and go to the grocery store to buy a couple things. Is he over doing it or does he feel this good? He has two stitches and the swelling was minimal. We should of had this done 8 years ago, but have put it off until now.

Anyways, my drive is in very high gear. When I'm near him I want it even more, he's been home from work resting. All I think about is having sex until the deed is done, then I'm good for a few hours. When we snuggle, those thoughts come in stronger and I will sometimes have traveling hands. Last night I was being good, no traveling hands while we watched a movie together snuggling.

How soon after did you have sex with your wife after your vasectomy? The doctors rules are 10 days of no sex, heavy lifting, resting, ect... Since my hubby was feeling so well, I was wondering if possibly he could break the rules if he was up to it too. I told him to ask the doctor if it was alright, but he declined to do so. I'm sure he will be going nuts in a few days, he's pretty high drive himself. He did tell that maybe I should use the vibrator to hold me off, but I'd much prefer him over toys or masturbation anyday and haven't been interested satisfying myself in other ways. My husband is so dang sexy.

Did you all wait the 10 days or were there some rule breakers out there?
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Old 12-10-2011, 07:16 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I had to wait that week to 10 days for intercourse, the bouncing around is bad for it

I do recall getting some doctor proscribed BJ's in the days prior (have to empty out the remaining sperm after all)


BTW-My first BJ after the vasectomy has to be one the best orgasms I ever had.
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Old 12-10-2011, 07:31 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Mine was about two weeks after. There is a mental block for a guy afterwards... you kinda want to make sure everything works. No pain from ejaculating and no blood etc. Also you need to see how the ejaculation feels without sperm. In reality I notice no difference. It looks and feels the same

I masturbated at I think day 7 to try it out... then another time...then sex.

He will walk like John Wayne though I wouldn't grab his balls for a little while until he fully recovers.

Afterwards, all is normal apart from the occasional ache down there after sitting sometimes but it subsides.

Really encourage him when he does have sex tell him how awesome it felt etc. Its the male
analogy to a boob job. Rock his world he sacrificed for you! When I had mine done there was actual smoke and extra cauterization on one side not the best memory. He went through a lot for you.

Good Luck! Nice to know you don't need protection anymore. I love it.

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I know a guy who got a little too 'adventurous' on the weekend after his vasectomy. He thought that he was handling it so weel, even went back to the shop for a little work. Maybe everybody is different, but he paid for it big time. Said he felt like he pulled something in the sex. I had a more extreme type of vasectomy than most, and I waited a week. What's a few days when the two of you are looking at a lifetime?
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Interesting. I will have to share this with the husband - he is adamant about getting the V after our baby is born...

If you don't mind the bit of derailing here, I'd like to ask those what differences they noticed after the V? Hubby is afraid his orgasm will be affected. I imagine, aside the pain, that the physical feeling of the sperm being loaded to eject will be gone. But since I am not a man, I can't really know how different that will feel to him...
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When I had mine done there was actual smoke and extra cauterization on one side not the best memory. He went through a lot for you.

Good Luck! Nice to know you don't need protection anymore. I love it.
My husband saw smoke too! My hubby just woke up and I can not believe how well he feels. I was hoping he'd be up to it after 7 days, not the full 10. My hubby insisted to have this done vs me. I'm allergic to latex condoms, so this is fantastic! No more worries of non latex and lambskin condoms breaking.
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Interesting. I will have to share this with the husband - he is adamant about getting the V after our baby is born...

If you don't mind the bit of derailing here, I'd like to ask those what differences they noticed after the V? Hubby is afraid his orgasm will be affected. I imagine, aside the pain, that the physical feeling of the sperm being loaded to eject will be gone. But since I am not a man, I can't really know how different that will feel to him...
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Having a vasectomy does not alter a man's sex drive, ability to preform or the amount of fluid/semen that comes out. My husband only took medicine the first day. There is one incision, which needed two stitches. I looked and I can't even tell he had it done. They gave him novicane, so the procedure itself didn't hurt. His doctor has done over 4,000 vasectomy's, so was pretty experienced.
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My husband waited only 3 days. He was ready to go! We used a condom (which sucked) but he felt great
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Having a vasectomy does not alter a man's sex drive, ability to preform or the amount of fluid that comes out. My husband only took medicine the first day. There is one incision, which needed two stitches. I looked and I can't even tell he had it done. They gave him novicane, so the procedure itself didn't hurt. His doctor has done over 4,000 vasectomy's, so was pretty experienced.
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Yea. Hubs is still a horn-dog, still orgasms like mad, still does everything he did before. He had some frozen peas after the procedure and that was it.

My hubs saw smoke too. He was all doped up when he was telling me how he thought his b@lls were on fire! But he was a trooper and was the one who wanted the V. We were tired of pulling out.
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We were tired of pulling out.
Wow, pulling out is soooooo risky!!!

It's great to see you back! Yay!
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Wow, pulling out is soooooo risky!!!

It's great to see you back! Yay!
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Pulling out is risky, but I knew my cycle and tracked it like mad. It worked for 9 years
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I messed up with my recovery and paid with pain. The day after I felt great, I mean fantastic. So... I cleaned the garage, lugged everything out, swept everything and filled the back of my truck a couple times with crap that needed gone.
Drove to my shop to dispose of it all and did a little work there as well. The next 4 days were agony. Should have listened to the doc when he said to take it easy. No sex for awhile after that.
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I messed up with my recovery and paid with pain. The day after I felt great, I mean fantastic. So... I cleaned the garage, lugged everything out, swept everything and filled the back of my truck a couple times with crap that needed gone.
Drove to my shop to dispose of it all and did a little work there as well. The next 4 days were agony. Should have listened to the doc when he said to take it easy. No sex for awhile after that.
A friend of mine had similar issues. Follow the docs directions, or your wait could be even longer.
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I had mine done on a Thursday. Since I'd taken Friday off and was "feeling fine," I took the boat out for a day of solo fishing.

There was a light chop in the bay.

Every single bump across one of the waves felt like a mule was kicking me in the groin.

I had to wear the "elastic sack" and use frozen peas for two weeks (and had to wat two weeks for sex).

Listen to his doctor.
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The doc said he could resume exercise 7 days after, a little earlier then what the packet says. Today is day 4 and he has zero pain.
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