When I was young I didn't care about success, what drove me was my daughter. But now that I have enough to set aside for her and myself, I want to go back to being happy go-lucky me!
My semi retirement involves full time study, a complete career change, as well as getting more free time in the air and maybe become an instructor. I want to pursue my passions, and having a girlfriend feels like a burden.
She says she will support me in whatever decision I make, why can't I believe that?
Do you trust her. I do. But then, I only like what you have written about her. Reality might not align with her truth-table.
This is such an easy decision for most people. The caveat is trust. Trust her
to have your back. Trust her
with your bat and balls. Will she step out of your ball field and seek another bat for her glove? Will she soon only hit foul balls. Those balls that are attached to you. Trust he
r with your money. Trust her
to keep her word. Trust her
to remain the same. No one stays the same for decades or a lifetime. Trust
her to keep you committed. Will you tire of her?
You trust yourself. You can be alone and trust only yourself. Is this what you want? Are you a Closet Hermit? A loner boner?
Do you need a women to complement your life. A women that you can look at proudly. A women you can touch and make love to whenever it suits yours' and her fancy!
She would be your' women. A women that looks great in a negligee?
Or can you wait, a few weeks at a time while you find another one, groom her, and then when she gets too close, dump her? How many women will you go through before you realize that this is not quite satisfying
. When grooming you must be an actor, not a genuine man. Some men like the chase, not the capture. Kinda like a dog chasing a car. What does the dog do with the car when he catches up to it?
She said she is happy with you. And happy with your plans. How much more happy can you downplay and ignore?