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post #1 of 38 (permalink) Old 01-07-2017, 08:29 AM Thread Starter
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Men, if you do *not* look at porn, why is that?

In an age where so many men do look at it, would those of you who do not please explain why?

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In an age where so many men do look at it, would those of you who do not please explain why?
1. It does not respect women

2. It is an unnecessary distraction to my sexual life. You, my wife, are much better than porn.

3. They are only 24h in a day, and I have much better things to do.

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1. It does not respect women



2. It is an unnecessary distraction to my sexual life. You, my wife, are much better than porn.



3. They are only 24h in a day, and I have much better things to do.

Along with these 3 I agree with, I'll add-

I feel it can create false expectations as to what sex should be - for both partners. It just isn't "real".

For the most part- I've got better things to do.
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I have a beautiful girlfriend,why on earth would I need to watch some "actress"frothing at the mouth over some other losers ****.
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Believe it or not I get bored after a short time, especially Hollywood porn. It's almost laughable. And would it kill them to attend at least one professional acting class?
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Re: Men, if you do *not* look at porn, why is that?

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1. It does not respect women

2. It is an unnecessary distraction to my sexual life. You, my wife, are much better than porn.

3. They are only 24h in a day, and I have much better things to do.
And you, my darling, are very affirming.

And that is surely a huge reason our marriage has never been sexless.

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Believe it or not I get bored after a short time, especially Hollywood porn. It's almost laughable. And would it kill them to attend at least one professional acting class?
Do you not follow the storyline.lol.
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Do you not follow the storyline.lol.
Have you seen the family Guy episode where Brian becomes a porn director?

Those were storylines
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Re: Men, if you do *not* look at porn, why is that?

Not sure if you mean ever or currently so I will admit , and with no shame, that I have looked at porn in the past.

The reason I don't currently is because I am well satisfied by my GF and have no reason
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Re: Men, if you do *not* look at porn, why is that?

In all my years living at home I have never found any type of porn. With my dad it would have to be magazines since my parents don't have internet, mobile devices, or pay per view capable television.

However I do know my dads reading tastes run to military novels with a lot of sex. So maybe that's just more his way.

But I'm guessing he doesn't because my parents are very conservative Baptist and if he ever did use it and my mom ever found out she would kick him out immediately. And he'd never risk it.

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I believe i was around 10 or 11ish when i found a truely staggering collection of playboys at our equipment storage yard. That was a great summer...but, it got boring. I checked out other magazines and saw some John Holmes films (damn, that will make a young man feel ill-equipped)....watched as many tracey lords videos i could get my hands on....but once i had a girlfriend (first and longest other than my wife), we took each others V card....well, I was all about the real thing. That pretty much ended porn....just cant get into it...


.HOWEVER....when I first returned home from....my overseas unpleasentness....my wife and got some schr**ms....while we were waiting for...you know...the start of the adventure...i was flipping through channels and came across some skin-a-max porn....we watched that laughing like idiots until I was horse and almost threw up......ever since...porn gives us severe laughing fits. Kinda funny.

I guess a good porn cure would be to watch it tripping balls...cause...its never the same after that...i guarantee it.

TL.DR. Porn is boring + too funny when combined with....other things.

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I believe i was around 10 or 11ish when i found a truely staggering collection of playboys at our equipment storage yard. That was a great summer...but, it got boring. I checked out other magazines and saw some John Holmes films (damn, that will make a young man feel ill-equipped)....watched as many tracey lords videos i could get my hands on....but once i had a girlfriend (first and longest other than my wife), we took each others V card....well, I was all about the real thing. That pretty much ended porn....just cant get into it...


.HOWEVER....when I first returned home from....my overseas unpleasentness....my wife and got some schr**ms....while we were waiting for...you know...the start of the adventure...i was flipping through channels and came across some skin-a-max porn....we watched that laughing like idiots until I was horse and almost threw up......ever since...porn gives us severe laughing fits. Kinda funny.

I guess a good porn cure would be to watch it tripping balls...cause...its never the same after that...i guarantee it.

TL.DR. Porn is boring + too funny when combined with....other things.
Porn movies are terrible, I mean just terrible acted with fake women and generally over tanned guys lol. I don't really understand the fascination with those other than comedic value. Now the newer stuff on the internet runs from horrifying to sensual. They are more scene based then entire movies. I understand those much more.
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Porn movies are terrible, I mean just terrible acted with fake women and generally over tanned guys lol. I don't really understand the fascination with those other than comedic value. Now the newer stuff on the internet runs from horrifying to sensual. They are more scene based then entire movies. I understand those much more.
I agree....they are ridiculous.

Hard for me to keep a straight face.
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Re: Men, if you do *not* look at porn, why is that?

Most porn is terrible. Maybe I'm weird, but I find all fetish stuff absurd. It doesn't bother me...nothing really does, but I don't get how you can get off to hang bangs, bukaki, foot stuff, arm pit stuff, whatever. I am not judging, just, I don't get it. Fake sex bores me too. Anything where the chick is making a face or they are in some Stengel contorted position or they angle it so I have to see deep inside her vagina. Meh. I prefer the amateur stuff, but even then, I am bored of it. Maybe I should just get my nuts cot off...the. I won't have to waste an hour at night to find something that gets the job done.
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