Re: I am trapped in a relationship.
Im gonna tell you a story. take from it whatever you choose
Theres this organisation im involved in. Helps less fortunate families so they can have a home, i would go on weekends and help people with the construction was a voluntary thing. There was one place i went, young girl (25 years old) with 4 kids trying her best to make ends meet and provide for her children. Her common law husband was an absoloute waste, alcoholic , abusive, violent. wouldnt even give her money for the children . But she tried, she had no family, friends and where she lived was around the guys family and friends, no one she couldve turned to.
A day i stayed back a little bit to help her run some electrical lines in the little shack they were staying, her husband came in drunk and aggresive, saying the worst thing to her and there children and me. was really sad i didnt want truble so i left. I talked to her and gave her some advice would chat with her now and again and heres what she did. She didnt have any education, any skills or qualifications. She got a job at a grocery cleaning and packing shelves ( sh*t pay) but she scraped every dollar together.
She stayed in the emotional , physical and blood sucking relationship for about 20 months. Got enough money to rent a place and she took her kids. Left his stupid ass, put a restraining order on him and he's paying child support. Right now she's still at the grocery but shes a cashier, shes doing a nursing course and she's extremely happy.
It doesnt matter your situation you can get out of it. Be smart and be a bit patient sometimes things are that hard but as corny as this may sound you have to be strong for yourself, because no one else will be strong for you. So all the best to you bruh.
P.S .. Her ex common law husband is still an ass and is miserable. lucky enough i met him at the beach and beat the shi* outve him. I was not proud but i was happy lol. Thats for calling me a fagg*t and talking about my beautiful loving mother.