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post #46 of 138 (permalink) Old 01-27-2017, 01:03 PM Thread Starter
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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

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It might still be an interesting question in the ladies lounge. Not because the answer are honest but because the dishonesty is interesting, just as it is here.

Honest answers from women would be very interesting - whichever way they went.

Same for men answering about breast size. I honestly don't like large breasts - but there is no way for anyone to know that I'm being honest.
Trust me, I believe you. Having known plenty of men who aren't boob men, such as yourself, I tend to believe a man completely when he says anything like this. I know you specifically said "large" breasts on this post but you've described yourself in other posts as not a boob man. Different strokes.

I also believe women when they say "no I'd have no interest in a huge penis". I've had this discussion with lots of females and some simply don't like it for whatever reason. Of course, plenty do like the thick and large. Different strokes.

But the question you were posing would ask women to reply regarding their own man's penis. That's a different question. It is one thing to imagine the issue separately from your beloved spouse and their body....quite a different one when thinking of your man, his junk, his emotions, his ego, your attachment to him just the way he is, your uncomfortable feelings that you might just say yes make it bigger, oh no I hope he never reads this.....

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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

I understand.

Your original question has an interesting part to it. I think its possible to wish one had a larger penis, but not to want to change it. It might seem like replacing a piece of "original equipment". The same might apply to adding additional options (vibration, flavor, safety lights etc....)






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Trust me, I believe you. Having known plenty of men who aren't boob men, such as yourself, I tend to believe a man completely when he says anything like this. I know you specifically said "large" breasts on this post but you've described yourself in other posts as not a boob man. Different strokes.

I also believe women when they say "no I'd have no interest in a huge penis". I've had this discussion with lots of females and some simply don't like it for whatever reason. Of course, plenty do like the thick and large. Different strokes.

But the question you were posing would ask women to reply regarding their own man's penis. That's a different question. It is one thing to imagine the issue separately from your beloved spouse and their body....quite a different one when thinking of your man, his junk, his emotions, his ego, your attachment to him just the way he is, your uncomfortable feelings that you might just say yes make it bigger, oh no I hope he never reads this.....

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I understand.

Your original question has an interesting part to it. I think its possible to wish one had a larger penis, but not to want to change it. It might seem like replacing a piece of "original equipment". The same might apply to adding additional options (vibration, flavor, safety lights etc....)
Yes, I've heard husbands say something like this about their wives breasts before....like "yeah I'd like a bigger rack to play with, but I love hers the way they are because they are HERS and because she's had my babies, etc, so I'd never change them". No doubt a lot of women would feel this way.

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I'm nearly that short but unlike you I've never had to worry about tripping on it.
Tripping isn't an issue only being a bit longer than average, it's just very thick which for some has been a problem.
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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

Absolutely yes. In a minute. No doubt or hesitation. When you are as small as I am, and you have gotten some complaints and zero compliments, it is an easy decision. In my case, it is not about wanting to be able to stretch my wife to her limit. It is about being able to accomplish more than the 1 or 2 positions that are the only ones we could use (back when we were having sex) to do PIV because otherwise I simply don't reach far enough to be able to pull out and thrust it back in. She could never be on top because I would always fall out as soon as she started moving because she could never get used to how little length was inside her compared to her other partners.

If you asked my wife whether she would want me to be bigger, if she answered honestly she would say yes.

But as with another poster, no need for me to feel bad that the operation doesn't exist because if you aren't going to use it, it doesn't matter how small it is. As the old joke goes - who are you going to please with that tiny thing? ME!

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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

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Would you have penis enlargement surgery?

A post of mine in another thread sent me to start this one.

Currently there is no such surgery. So I'm speaking hypothetically here. Pretend there was a procedure that could make your size be whatever you choose, with little to no risk of losing any functioning or sensation. Also pretend the cost was practical.

Would you do it?

Why or why not?
I'd make it freakishly huge....Then I could drive around the south and charge 2-bits a gander

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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

On further thought. I would go a little thicker.

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I have said before that if I could magically design a pill to add length and girth to penis size I would the richest man on the planet inside a year. Problem would be then all guys would be walking around with elephant trunks in their pants and women would hate me lol.
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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

I have never compared myself to other guys and honestly havent been in a locker room since college.
but I think mine is only slightly large based on womens comments.

the only complaint I ever got was 'too large' and the rest was 'nice and big', so the answer is absolutely not.

I not fond of the idea of boob enlargements or **** enhancements generally.

natural is best, almost always.
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Hmmm....I think if you asked the younger me I would have wanted to be freakishly huge, thinking thats what women want. But....as I gained more experience I realized that I do well with what I've got. Why would any guy want to change when they've presumably spent a lifetime ummmm practicing and improving their "craft", with their current tool? Just my thoughts.
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natural is best, almost always.
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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

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Would you have penis enlargement surgery?

A post of mine in another thread sent me to start this one.

Currently there is no such surgery. So I'm speaking hypothetically here. Pretend there was a procedure that could make your size be whatever you choose, with little to no risk of losing any functioning or sensation. Also pretend the cost was practical.

Would you do it?

Why or why not?
No.

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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

Actually there is a way to surgically do it but you need to have a penis less then 3" erect to medically qualify. They have also done a few penis transplants on returning veterans who lost theirs to bombs. Prior to the transplants they were enlarging penises by essentially cutting it in half an then inserting a portion of a penis donor's penis, attach the veins, etc.. and viola, you have a larger penis. In reality girth, not length is more important, especially with the majority of women who get their orgasms by clitoral stimulation. You do not need much length to stimulate a clitoris.

Guys are much more hung up on penis size with many thinking a larger penis is a sign of more manliness as if sex was all it took to make a man. Much of porn re-enforces that belief by showing women, single and married, discarding their boyfriends/husbands in favor of having sex with a big penis attached to someone with little else than a big penis. Real life is not like that but still, many men think penis size will make up for a lack of good sexual technique and will please a woman more. Most women I know have complained that a very large penis leaves them sore and is a distraction if it bumps against their cervix with each stroke. There are size queens, but much of that enjoyment if mental from looking at and thinking about the size of the penis inside of them. Funny how men do not complain about the size of their wife's breast or tightness of their vaginas. Sure, some may prefer big breasts and a tight vagina but marry the woman they love and who offers a lot more than those two things.

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Actually there is a way to surgically do it but.....
No there isn't.

You cannot surgically go from average to elephant dong with any surgery or technology we currently have.

It has surprised me on the thread to hear some men actually think there is such a surgery.

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Re: If it was safe, practical and fully functioning....

I don't get any complaints though I'm only average sized. However, I hear a lot of women say that 7 inches is the perfect size, so I might consider it.

The "problem" is that my wife hates to be stretched, so she says my size is perfect. It feels good but doesn't cause discomfort. So, I'm not sure being bigger would do anything for me. My wife is ultimately the one that matters most.

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