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If you eat her *****, you will own her forever
I'd have to guess that just about everybody has dined on my RSXW, and nobody owns her skanky a$$!

But she seems to think that she owns everyone who ever has!

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I'd have to guess that just about everybody has dined on my RSXW, and nobody owns her skanky a$$!

But she seems to think that she owns everyone who ever has!
Buy her for what her worth is and sell her for what she thinks she is worth. DJIA 101.....

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1. Has never had PIV sex with anyone but her ex-husband of almost 25 years although she did engage in non PIV sexual behavior with a few guys before him

I wish I could find someone like this. Most of the women I've met have been riding the c**k carousel since their divorces and have racked up some impressive mileage. I'm not interested in anyone like that.

2. Told you she'd never once achieved orgasm through PIV sex due to her husband's lack of concern about her sexual needs

This wouldn't bother me. I guess I would consider it a challenge.

3. Has never had sex in any position other than missionary, doggy, or spoons?

Men like to be the leaders...alpha. Men also like to think they are more experienced than their woman when it comes to sex. This would actually take some of the pressure off of him and give him the opportunity to lead her in exploring new dimensions.

4. Has been in a 100% sexless marriage for the last 13 years except for frequent solo sessions with her toy collection?

As long as her love of toys wasn't the reason for the sexless marriage!
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that's because your stupid.
LOL! It might be a little more effective had you used the words properly. It should say "that's because you're stupid". OTOH, eating a woman out is not necessarily the way to win her heart for ever. It typically requires a little more than just being good at cunnilingus

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I guess I don't understand some of the men who would be opposed to a woman with some experience. We learn something from everyone we are with (or at least should). If the OP is willing to learn and share her experience (or lack thereof) that is great. But the presence of experience is NOT a bad thing. The more you practice, the better you get. You guys that are in to **** shaming must be very insecure in your own manhood

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Hellomynameis,

I merged your two threads on this topic. Only one thread on a topic.
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I guess I don't understand some of the men who would be opposed to a woman with some experience. We learn something from everyone we are with (or at least should). If the OP is willing to learn and share her experience (or lack thereof) that is great. But the presence of experience is NOT a bad thing. The more you practice, the better you get. You guys that are in to **** shaming must be very insecure in your own manhood
For me, it has nothing to do with shaming and everything to do with STD's
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For me, it has nothing to do with shaming and everything to do with STD's
You need to get out more and/or study the stats in greater detail. You have a greater chance of being in a car accident than you do getting an STD. Date low risk women and it is not a problem. OTOH if you want to bang the bar maid who has been with every guy in the bar, you might have reason to take pause.

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You need to get out more and/or study the stats in greater detail. You have a greater chance of being in a car accident than you do getting an STD. Date low risk women and it is not a problem. OTOH if you want to bang the bar maid who has been with every guy in the bar, you might have reason to take pause.
I forgot to mention, it also has to do with character and standards.

Ynot, you cant have it both ways. The more partners...the greater the risk. It's a game of chance, or luck, like Russian roulette. It doesn't matter where you meet them...it's where they've been. How can you determine who is a "low risk person"? You can't tell by how they look or where they work. You don't know their whole life story and they aren't necessarily going to tell you the truth.

My XWW had one affair, with one married guy. She contracted HPV and had to have a hysterectomy.

No thanks...not for me. I'm not in a hurry to get cancer of the mouth, throat, testicles...etc from a virus that it is estimated half the population is carrying...without symptoms. To me, sex is something special. Something to be shared within a committed relationship. I'd rather wait for someone who lives their life by a similar moral code and has more respect for themselves. But that's just me.

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I forgot to mention, it also has to do with character and standards.

Ynot, you cant have it both ways. The more partners...the greater the risk. It's a game of chance, or luck, like Russian roulette. It doesn't matter where you meet them...it's where they've been. How can you determine who is a "low risk person"? You can't tell by how they look or where they work. You don't know their whole life story and they aren't necessarily going to tell you the truth.

My XWW had one affair, with one married guy. She contracted HPV and had to have a hysterectomy.

No thanks...not for me. I'm not in a hurry to get cancer of the mouth, throat, testicles...etc from a virus that it is estimated half the population is carrying...without symptoms. To me, sex is something special. Something to be shared within a committed relationship. I'd rather wait for someone who lives their life by a similar moral code and has more respect for themselves. But that's just me.

Good luck out there Ynot!
Thanks! To each their own. I refuse to live my life in fear of the unknown. We play Russian Roulette every time we get behind the wheel of a car. It doesn't stop me from driving. The extremely low chance I have of getting an STD is not going to prevent me from enjoying an experienced woman either.
BTW it has nothing to do with self respect. In fact I would say the person going out and living their life is probably more respectful of themself than someone afraid to live life is.

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Guys, would you get involved with a 40-something woman who:

1. Has never had PIV sex with anyone but her ex-husband of almost 25 years although she did engage in non PIV sexual behavior with a few guys before him

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2. Told you she'd never once achieved orgasm through PIV sex due to her husband's lack of concern about her sexual needs

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3. Has never had sex in any position other than missionary, doggy, or spoons?

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4. Has been in a 100% sexless marriage for the last 13 years except for frequent solo sessions with her toy collection?

Would you consider this woman to be a challenge to see if you could make her enjoy sex, or would you consider her to be too high risk of being LD?
I have been with less experienced women than that in their thirties. I was content.
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Just have sex with her. If you don't like it....Hit it and quit it.

If it was me. Sure. Not all women have an O through PIV. You could be her first!

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