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post #1 of 27 (permalink) Old 01-29-2017, 04:46 PM Thread Starter
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How does she get you going?

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For men in LTR, what does your wife/gf do that can spark your desire for her.
We all know how things can get somewhat bland in the mix of the busy monotony. Especially after being with the same person for so long.
So, I am wondering if you catch your wife saying something, doing something, acting any particular way that might be a catalyst for feeling arousal toward her...what would those things be?

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I am not being flippant here, so bear with me. I have been married close to 21 years, together for 23. If my wife is in the room with me, I lust after her. And, honestly, I lust after her even when we are apart. I am on T and it's almost like being a teenager again. I can get horny just being around her. I realize you are looking for something specific, but honestly there isn't anything specific. All she has to do is be herself and it gets me going.

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Watching my wife try on dresses for an upcoming cruise did it for me.




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Married 30 years, have never lost interest in my wife.
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Married 15 years.

If my wife is simply PRO-ACTIVE that gets me going.

--saying she wants me to f@ck her later
--grabbing me by the crotch and leading me to the beadroom
--simply being naked on the bed with a come hither look rather than bundled in thick pajamas under the covers

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Im pretty much good to go 24/7...but, when she puts her hair in the knot designs and braids....then im not responsible for my actions...

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Together 17 years, now. She'll sneak up behind me in the bedroom, throw me onto the bed, and start undressing me. Often, when we're watching TV, she'll slip her hand into my pants and start playing with me.

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One of the things mine does is to say that she would like a back rub. Which means she will end up nude with and that the rub will end up as an all over everywhere exploration.
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Wow. If my STBX did all those ques, man I wouldn't be in this situation. Your women must really admire, support, and love you a lot! They got the keep the husband caught with her wile and charisma sexyness. How do the ladies have the energy with kids and work, and putting up with us to do that.
I am amazed. I wonder if they read the book by Dr. Laura, "the proper care and feeding of husbands." Where can I sign my wife up for lessons.

A question for the women. Do you roll your eyes that these men''s women are proactive too? Rather than being groped? I hope not.
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My wife generally eschews all forms of sexuality - however, if she's dressed up and is wearing her black tights with her black bra, I find that hot. Sadly, it doesn't get any further as she invariably has a headache.
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25 year marriage.

Looking at the natural bulge in my pants while acting like she's not actually looking.
That's so cute!
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I'm not married but when my gf wears yoga pants she could give a dead man a hard on,if she combines it with a bra sports top jeeeez.
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All she has to do is show a little interest in me. That would shock the hell out of me. That's not likely to happen, she's really not interested in sex of any kind and has been that way for a long time.

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It is little things. The coy little smile, letting me know she is thinking dirty thoughts. Touching me in any fashion, she knows this gets me going.... Clearing the kiddos out of the house se we can be 'alone'.
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Re: How does she get you going?

There is no one specific thing. Could be her coming out of the shower, wearing a blouse that shows off her cleavage, or looking at her legs in shorts. Like someone else said, it does not take much since I lust after my wife all the time. Sometimes she has to tell me that I am drowning her in love. Her girlfriends all know that I still chase her while their own marriages have grown stale and sexless because of age. We are married for over 44 years and I still lust after my wife. She also likes to tease me by running her hand up my groin area and laughing.

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