It's amazing how much online dating, especially the apps where you can swipe, really are an epitome of life. 80% of women go after 20% of the guys. And these guys know it and just are in it to get laid. Then women complain, but they have created this situation. It's anazing how many attractive women I find in my age group that have never been married but say they are looking for "the one to settle down with".
Yep......men innocent, women evil.
Who is complaining, though? You mean your several attractive female friends in your age group that have never been married but are looking for the one to settle down with? Are they all skanks and horrible people? Did they waste their youth on the c*ck carousel?
Look the reality is that if you have a sh*tty attitude, you are not likely to have much luck anywhere in dating, and if you do have luck you are going to attract someone who for one reason or another, has just as sh*tty of an attitude as you do, it just might manifest differently in them. So sure, a guy with a sh*tty attitude may once in awhile attract a woman he finds highly attractive, but he will soon find out things that are not attractive about her....and then he will project his displeasure and distaste toward all women....thus keeping his attitude in such a sh*tty level that again, that's all he will attract.
I've had horrendous horrible messages from creepers on dating sites...but that's the only "bad" thing that's ever happened to me. I'm not complaining about anything (creepers be creeping, its not just on OLD). I've had lots of fun dates and experiences from OLD, and one 6 month relationship that was just perfect for me, in the right time, right place sort of way, from OLD.
I've met plenty of guys who are "just in it to get laid", but actually I've met more of those in real life than I have on OLD. The guys on OLD who write their profiles in a way that indicate he is not "just in it to get laid" are usually being forthright and honest. There are those who make it clear they are in it to get laid, so if you aren't in it for that, it is easy to avoid those guys.
I'm just saying...if you have an overall bad attitude about the opposite gender (and the post I quoted reeks of this) then you are not likely to attract a happy, well adjusted person no matter where you seek them.