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Men how do you like your affection?

This is a spin off from the ladies thread.

Men. Besides sexual affection, what kind of affection do you like that makes you feel all warm and loving? Do you like being the little spoon? Do you like when we sit on your lap? What do you love that your wife does or wish she did?
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Read this to my husband, he said : nonsexual touching like holding his hand, cuddling on the couch, random hugs and kisses, and the occasional random butt squeeze. He also said he likes when I sit on his lap, or sit next to him with my legs over him.

Yup. He's a physical dude. His number one love language and I happily oblige.
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Aside from the occasional loving pneumothorax I mentioned; I liked her quick touch on my back as she walked past in the house. I also noticed when she occasionally rested her hand on my back or shoulder in public. No deep open display of affection but I noticed and it made me feel calm.

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My husband loves when I touch his butt lol. Maybe because he knows I love it, but he is a stomach sleeping and I like to cope a feel every once in a while.
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My primary Love Language is physical touch. My wife, unfortunately ranks that very low. I like to be hugged and kissed. I like a back hug while I'm cooking, or just a good, long hug after work. I like to kiss, but she doesn't like her space invaded, so it happens rarely. I do like to spoon, and she likes that too. I like to hold hands but not for too long. For some reason that's the ONE physical affection I'm not as into.

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My primary Love Language is physical touch. My wife, unfortunately ranks that very low. I like to be hugged and kissed. I like a back hug while I'm cooking, or just a good, long hug after work. I like to kiss, but she doesn't like her space invaded, so it happens rarely. I do like to spoon, and she likes that too. I like to hold hands but not for too long. For some reason that's the ONE physical affection I'm not as into.

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We get that hand holding thing! We mainly do it in the car when he is driving, otherwise I usually link onto his arm as he walks with his hands in his pockets. Something about too warm hands and stiff fingers for us
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This is a spin off from the ladies thread.

Men. Besides sexual affection, what kind of affection do you like that makes you feel all warm and loving? Do you like being the little spoon? Do you like when we sit on your lap? What do you love that your wife does or wish she did?
A nice long hug... a kiss, an I love you, positive affirmations...
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I wouldn't know. If i ever get any from my wife i will post back.
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This is a spin off from the ladies thread.

Men. Besides sexual affection, what kind of affection do you like that makes you feel all warm and loving? Do you like being the little spoon? Do you like when we sit on your lap? What do you love that your wife does or wish she did?
Standing behind me & giving me one of those nice warm, raise your shoulders type of hug. I do it to her whenever I get the chance, she seems to love it. I just wish she would be the "hugger' instead of the "huggee".

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Does not really matter, anything you are comfortable with will do. preferably skin to skin. You must have the reasonable sexual freq. first, though, unlike with some women non-sexual touch is not a substitute...
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Does not really matter, anything you are comfortable with will do. preferably skin to skin. You must have the reasonable sexual freq. first, though, unlike with some women non-sexual touch is not a substitute...


That's interesting because I see it a little different. You need to have non sexual affection first in order to have frequent sexual encounters. I don't think there is any replacement for non sexual contact either.
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This is a spin off from the ladies thread.

Men. Besides sexual affection, what kind of affection do you like that makes you feel all warm and loving? Do you like being the little spoon? Do you like when we sit on your lap? What do you love that your wife does or wish she did?

I love it when Mrs.CuddleBug licks my neck and my ears. Drives me crazy. She knows this and does it well.

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I show affection through acts of service. I like when my wife keeps the house clean, does the little things for me....but those things are very few and far between
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I simply want her to unflinchingly gaze into my eyes like there's no tomorrow!

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My type of affection is being left alone in my mancave with a locked door to assure that happens.
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