Alpha and beta are rather foreign words in my language, to be honest I disagree with either, but I still have absorbed some wisdom in terms of how a real man should exhibit both "alpha and beta" traits to have a balance of both, and that's justified in my experience as well.
To be over-confident and arrogant is a turn off, but to be strong, naturally confident, that's a different story. I see my lack of "beta" traits as a weakness of mine as well. But some so-called "beta" traits of mine are rather misunderstood however, like for example, apparently loving nature = unmanly
Yet I stand very strongly with my views, regardless of the "civilised", and I'm always proud to be a wild barbarian savage at core, which flips the whole "beta nature-lover" thing. I can cuddle animals like babies but will stand firm to protect them if threatened.
It bids the question, what is more manly, a man who disrespects nature, acts superior, or a man who lives alongside nature, and is attuned to them, and who spits on those who disrespects the environment?