Frankly, what people do in their private lives is none of my concern. For me, personally, a threesome wouldn't work ... but that's just me.
@ tacoma - I think Catherine602 was stating her own personal opinion. Strong? Yeah. But venomous? C'mon ... venom is hateful, poisonous and motivated by anger/hatred. I don't think that was the poster's intention.
Oh, well, there ya have it! Heck, anything in Cosmo must trump any studies conducted by the New England Journal of Medicine. Not that I think such a learned publication would bother with such studies. How 'bout Playboy? I imagine Hef's publication would be far more authoritative than Cosmo ...
I wonder why you think I am being venomous. That implies that you have a right to use women sexually and i am poisoning the pool of the 100s of young women who are anxious to put on a porn show just because men like that sort of thing? Good for me. I am surprised you did not call me other names to characterize my post. how about the usual prude, uptight, closed minded. Is it possible you resort to name calling because you cannot offer an arguement to the contrary? Then I think your lacks content (as in dumb).
It not venom it is common sense. And if it influences women reading this I am happy. Posted via Mobile Device
I`m attractive, witty, charming, intelligent, and good in bed.
I don`t desire her, maybe you should actually read my posts before responding Catherine, you seem to have a problem with that.
Sex, fun, orgasms, free beer, the opportunity to spend some time with a guy who is...wait for it....
"attractive, witty, charming, intelligent, and good in bed."
And my wife is no slouch either.
She could bring them along!!
Threesomes are so 80's
orgies are all the rage now.
Good idea!!
Contrary to popular belief many women (especially of the latest generation) enjoy sex for the sake of sex.
I know it`s tough to swallow but it`s true. I read it in Cosmo.
@ tacoma - I think Catherine602 was stating her own personal opinion. Strong? Yeah. But venomous? C'mon ... venom is hateful, poisonous and motivated by anger/hatred. I don't think that was the poster's intention.
Hmm..then we`ll have to disagree.
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If a man loves his wife, he would not want to see her degraded. Men who ask for threesomes have fallen out of love and view their wife's as a collection of warm holes for their pleasure.
I`m pretty sure that would sound venomous to a couple who was happy and secure in the lifestyle of a swinger.
Oh, well, there ya have it! Heck, anything in Cosmo must trump any studies conducted by the New England Journal of Medicine. Not that I think such a learned publication would bother with such studies. How 'bout Playboy? I imagine Hef's publication would be far more authoritative than Cosmo ...
Because your words are venomous to people who embrace the lifestyle you bash so venomously.
It isn`t your cup of tea so it`s degrading and exploitation of women.
You do realize it is often the woman`s idea yes?
Do you realize there are thousands of people who happily, lovingly, embrace the lifestyle you so vigorously demean?
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That implies that you have a right to use women sexually and i am poisoning the pool of the 100s of young women who are anxious to put on a porn show just because men like that sort of thing?
Only in your shallow little world do my words hold that implication Catherine..only in your shallow little world.
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Good for me. I am surprised you did not call me other names to characterize my post. how about the usual prude, uptight, closed minded. Is it possible you resort to name calling because you cannot offer an arguement to the contrary? Then I think your lacks content (as in dumb).
I`ve offered an argument and I have called you no names.
Again I think you should practice reading for content before hitting the reply button.
Ahhh yea I heard all the free sex. That a popular myth. Actually do you know who is having all of that non committed sex? The most attractive young men. 20% of men having 80% of that free sex. With all of the qualities you claim to have, do you think you would make the cut? If so why?
Whitt is so 70's and boring, intelligence, are you going recite poetry that's the 60's, charm and good in bed how do you know? What did you do, have auditions with 50 women? Or maybe you were under the mistaken assumption that the girls taking your order at MickyD's were inviting you for a tryst in the kitchen when they said "can I help you". A lot of men think that. Posted via Mobile Device
My "world" is shallow?? How so? Is depth measured in terms of how much your mind is given over to pure mindless sex?
There is more richness to the human experience than you know. Men and women actually seek ways to develop their minds in directions other than base desires. Of course you can consider following you genital around as deep experiences. But it is so predictable there is so much more to life than sex sex sex. Step away from the porn and out of the pit of your limbic brain and revel in the delights of cognition. . Posted via Mobile Device
I actually agree with some of Catherine's views on threesomes.
However, I realize that some couples embrace swinging as a lifestyle. That is fine; different strokes. I cannot speak for the women who chose to participate in such things.
I enjoyed sex for the sake of orgasms when I was single. It was fun and I learned a lot about myself, but at some point most people grow weary of sleeping around. One of the reasons I became a wife is I wanted to enjoy lovemaking with one man and spend our lives pleasing each other in bed.
I actually agree with some of Catherine's views on threesomes.
However, I realize that some couples embrace swinging as a lifestyle. That is fine; different strokes.
I enjoyed sex for the sake of orgasms when I was single. It was fun and I learned a lot about myself, but at some point most people grow weary of sleeping around. I wanted to enjoy lovemaking with one man and spend our lives pleasing each other in bed.
I never had the chance to have fun times in my 20's got married early. I envy women who have though. I think it is an important part of sexual developement as long as it is on their terms. I am glad women are having fun and are not as uptight as I was. It has cost me years of what could have been a very enjoyable time with my husband. But, better late then never.
I am starting to have naughty fantasies lately. Two young well hung studs but that's for another thread. Maybe I am not so shallow after all? Posted via Mobile Device
I am starting to have naughty fantasies lately. Two young well hung studs but that's for another thread. Maybe I am not so shallow after all? Posted via Mobile Device
put down the punch catherine602, PUT DOWN THE PUNCH!
Re: Tried threesomes in a marriage? 
Not that I think such a learned publication would bother with such studies. How 'bout Playboy? I imagine Hef's publication would be far more authoritative than Cosmo ...
