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post #31 of 51 (permalink) Old 02-23-2017, 02:44 PM
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Re: How would you answer this question?

Closer to her. I don't get sex a lot, so when we do I feel definately closer to her.

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As opposed to WHAT? Feeling like an armadillo the rest of the time? (sorry, couldn't resist )
I'm seeing something here, Perhaps we should ask "How do you feel after your sexual advances have been rejected?" A plague ridden mutant rat might just come up in the answers.
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I'm seeing something here, Perhaps we should ask "How do you feel after your sexual advances have been rejected?" A plague ridden mutant rat might just come up in the answers.
LOL!! Maybe the REAL question is,

What does it feel like to be a "man" and why does sex cause you to feel that way?
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I asked my husband this question and was very surprised by his answer. I'm wondering if other guys feel the same way he does or is he in the minority of male thinking.

If your SO asked you this what would be your answer,

"After we have sex do you feel,
- physically relieved
- closer to me
- happy about our family/relationship
- totally blank
- relaxed/stress free
- Blank (you fill in the blank)
For me it is a sense of euphoric acceptance and belonging that lasts about 24 hours or more.
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Re: How would you answer this question?

It makes me feel like I made a mistake 30 years ago.

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I'm seeing something here, Perhaps we should ask "How do you feel after your sexual advances have been rejected?" A plague ridden mutant rat might just come up in the answers.
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Re: How would you answer this question?

It's a toss up between:

What is her name, and, where's the remote?

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Glad that it is over. A little nauseous. Hoping that it is a while before it happens again. Sweaty.

If I failed to climax, however, my primary concern is coming up with a plausible explanation for that.
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Re: How would you answer this question?

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I asked my husband this question and was very surprised by his answer. I'm wondering if other guys feel the same way he does or is he in the minority of male thinking.

If your SO asked you this what would be your answer,

"After we have sex do you feel,
- physically relieved
- closer to me
- happy about our family/relationship
- totally blank
- relaxed/stress free
- Blank (you fill in the blank)

Basically I wanted to know how he views sex so I could better understand his needs. I've read a lot of book on improving our marriage and improving myself to be a better wife and they all give their opinions on how men really think about sex, so I was curious as to what the adverage man, husband , father feels.
Daisy I'm curious, what was his answer? You said you were surprised but then....didn't tell us what it was. Unless I'm missing it somewhere.....

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post #40 of 51 (permalink) Old 04-27-2017, 04:26 PM
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".. closer to me.."

Sex releases Oxytocine the bonding hormone.

The impact can lasts for a couple days.

It is nature's way of turning two people into one nuclear family unit/marriage.
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Re: How would you answer this question?

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I asked my husband this question and was very surprised by his answer. I'm wondering if other guys feel the same way he does or is he in the minority of male thinking.

If your SO asked you this what would be your answer,

"After we have sex do you feel,
- physically relieved
- closer to me
- happy about our family/relationship
- totally blank
- relaxed/stress free
- Blank (you fill in the blank)

Basically I wanted to know how he views sex so I could better understand his needs. I've read a lot of book on improving our marriage and improving myself to be a better wife and they all give their opinions on how men really think about sex, so I was curious as to what the adverage man, husband , father feels.
"After we have sex do you feel,
- physically relieved -- sometimes
- closer to me -- ALWAYS!!!
- happy about our family/relationship -- Definitely
- totally blank -- Nope. never had that response
- relaxed/stress free -- Usually
- Blank (you fill in the blank) -- Like I can take on the world... or just lay here and snuggle for hours. Either way, I'm not a roll over and go to sleep kind of guy.
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Daisy I'm curious, what was his answer? You said you were surprised but then....didn't tell us what it was. Unless I'm missing it somewhere.....
His response was: Physically relieved, relaxed and stress free but also snuggly.

When it responded with: So when we have sex you don't view or that doesn't make you feel my love for you, it's just fill a physical need.

He responded to that: It's definitely more physical but its not emotionless.

From many conversation with my hubby he definitely feels that sex is more of a physical activities that is used for getting and receiving pleasure, but he is a man of very few emotions or at least emotion he keeps hidden or doesn't use..
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I feel wanted, lusted after and relieved.
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Re: How would you answer this question?

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I asked my husband this question and was very surprised by his answer. I'm wondering if other guys feel the same way he does or is he in the minority of male thinking.

If your SO asked you this what would be your answer,

"After we have sex do you feel,
- physically relieved
- closer to me
- happy about our family/relationship

- totally blank
- relaxed/stress free
- Blank (you fill in the blank)
Those 4
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His response was: Physically relieved, relaxed and stress free but also snuggly.

When it responded with: So when we have sex you don't view or that doesn't make you feel my love for you, it's just fill a physical need.

He responded to that: It's definitely more physical but its not emotionless.

From many conversation with my hubby he definitely feels that sex is more of a physical activities that is used for getting and receiving pleasure, but he is a man of very few emotions or at least emotion he keeps hidden or doesn't use..
Don't assume his emotions are hidden or unused just because you don't understand them. Without wanting to be sexist, there appears to be a general difference between men and women when it comes to emotion.

Just because we experience emotion differently to women, doesn't mean we don't experience them.

Sex is fundamental to our emotional expression. You can't have one without the other.
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