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#1 ·
Hey guys, I'm looking for some advice from the menfolk here, women feel free to share too.

My husband and I have a very active sex life and we enjoy lots of adventurous love making. My question to you is:

Men, what sex toys do you love your wife using on you? Is there anything in particular that blows your mind? Id ask my H what he's interested in trying, but I'd like to surprise him some night with a special ride just for him. Thoughts?
 
#4 ·
It depends a lot on the sort of sex you enjoy.

Some of the artifical V sex toys (fleshlights, etc) are more stimulating than the real thing, but the psychological feeling may be much less interesting than real. Same for vibrators.

Some men find prostate toys make things much more intense, but many find the idea too disturbing to try.


Its difficult to tell since interests vary so much, but personally I find male sex toys only interesting in the context of a female-dominant scenario - "I'm going to make you..., " . Otherwise I find actual female bodies much more desirable.

If you broaden the term "sex toy" to include lingerie , handcuffs etc, then there are a wide range of possibilities, but again it completely depends on the person.


There will be huge variation. That makes it really difficult to surprise him (or women) with a new sex toy and get good results.
 
#6 ·
Yes it is really hard to surprise your partner with a toy, that's why I came here because I didn't know what to get!

If it helps any, we have an assortment of gear already. Handcuffs, hog ties, gags, collars etc. I guess I am looking for something that I can use on HIM. My creativity has been lacking as of late and I kind of want to shock him, but in a good way. If that makes sense?
 
#21 ·
Estim has always unnerved me, though I don't really know why. I've never used it or done it either. But I'm willing to try anything once. Maybe that something me and him could try for the first time together. I dont know much about it so I guess I need to do some research on it first.
 
#38 ·
This sounds like it could be a fun idea! I've been wanting some new lingerie/body suits. Maybe I could get a whole new outfit too. Something he's never seen before to add to the new slave role. Wonder if I should practice an accent for it too!

I'm gonna have fun with this one. :)
 
#42 ·
You can get nurse scrubs very cheaply. Order some and you can be a naughty nurse.

Or go pantyless in a local bar - have him meet you there - and flash a bit to turn him on but don't let him act on it - tease. If you're bold you can "accidentally" flash someone else and get a little interest. Jealousy can feel a lot like the excitement we feel with anew relationship - it kicks in the competitiveness and adds uncertainty. Some flirt with other guys then eventually get picked up by their spouse. Obviously there are light and heavy variants to this but it could be fun.

My W is a sweet catholic girl but we still sometimes talk and act a bit in bed - if she's too tired I've told her it's ok the office **** can take over and she can role play that a bit which is a HUGE difference from her normal self. Anyway role play might be more fun than toys for many guys


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#45 ·
I know this is going to sound kinda out there, but have you thought about trying urethral stimulation? Perhaps tie your hubby up and blindfold him, and insert a urethral sound/dilator into his penis?

For several years, my wife would participate in urethral play with me using a surgical quality urethral sound. We worked up to the point where she would insert the sound far enough into my erect penis to stimulate my prostate which was absolutely sublime. About a year ago, she told me she didn't want to do this with me anymore, she claimed that she was afraid of hurting me. I still do it by myself with her blessing, but it would totally blow my mind if she would do this with me again.

Again, this isn't for everyone, but perhaps your husband (and you) would enjoy this type of activity. Worth a try I would think.
 
#51 ·
If you haven't already got one I recommend a Hitachi Wand. Pair it with the hummingbird attachment.

If he's an the large size (say 7" and up) it might not fit very well.

Use some lube.

All I can say about this combination is DAYM!

@AussieRN I did get w a rechargeable h wand but we only occasionally use it because she can't help but mash that thing on herself and what feels good at the time can be difficult afterwards ;). But - sorry for a little TMI - but I am girthy- about 6" around - and was wondering if the hummingbird would be too tight. I bought one of those sleeves once and man it is HARD to get in there. Do you think it's stretchy enough to work? Do you just leave it in place or hold the wand in it while stroking? And if I couldn't move it would sitting in one place be annoying? Very curious!


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