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post #16 of 20 (permalink) Old 03-01-2017, 08:03 PM
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I'm not sure what to do anymore. Nothing I seem to do can make her happy. All she does is yell about everything, never happy, always unsatisfied, and blames me for EVERYTHING. She lost her W2 because she was looking at it, and blamed me for it, even though I had all our other tax information including, but is not limited to the house info, my W2, and other 5 items as such. It gets so depressing that every day she is upset about something. I don't even want to come home. My problem is that we have a son, whom I love very much and I would hate to never be around him. She is from another country and her parents are very wealthy. I don't want to be around her anymore, but I don't want her to leave and take my son. I cry almost every night. I really need a friend.
you married a dominant woman, I don't know what to tell you, they tend to be violent and abusive. Call a lawyer, install nanny cams, collect evidence, she is likely cheating or thinking of cheating, this maybe a valid reason to get a divorce and justify your divorce. Wrestling custody from a woman is very very difficult in most courts.

As to her travel, it is imperative that you take the minor child from the home, find a domestic abuse shelter and seek help immediately. the law protects people in domestic abuse situations accordingly. However many states have laws against child concealment, contact a lawyer and figure it out. but first get evidence of the abuse and abusive behavior.

get your son out of that environment pronto. I ave had 2 males friends with ex-wives like this, they fortunately got custody. Demand all visitation be supervised, demand sole physical custody.
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Yell, scream. Blames me. I have never felt so trapped and depressed before in my life.
How's her parents' mental health? And if you can give some general idea of country (region would be fine)...
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I'm not sure what to do anymore. Nothing I seem to do can make her happy. All she does is yell about everything, never happy, always unsatisfied, and blames me for EVERYTHING. She lost her W2 because she was looking at it, and blamed me for it, even though I had all our other tax information including, but is not limited to the house info, my W2, and other 5 items as such. It gets so depressing that every day she is upset about something. I don't even want to come home. My problem is that we have a son, whom I love very much and I would hate to never be around him. She is from another country and her parents are very wealthy. I don't want to be around her anymore, but I don't want her to leave and take my son. I cry almost every night. I really need a friend.

I'm sorry to hear your story. If your wife is from another country and you're afraid that she might up and suddenly decide to leave with your son, my best advice is to find your son's passport and hide it (or if in extreme situation, destroy it). That way, at least you won't be surprised by a sudden move on her part to take your son away and flee to the protection of her parents and their money...
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Thank you all for listening and giving your advice and opinions. This is the first time that I have ever truly opened up about the way I feel and the mess that I have gotten myself into. Ya know, most of my life I have always wanted to love a women with all my heart and give to them the best that I can and treat them the way most women deserve to be treated. And deep down, this hurts me so much that all she does is yell and complain about everything. Example that just happened tonight, I offered to do the dishes and she got an attitude and said no I'll do it and began to nag about good Lord knows what. But this is everyday. Everyday is get home and she is there to remind me of some failure and they yell about something else.

All to say, thank you for hearing me out.
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Thank you all for listening and giving your advice and opinions. This is the first time that I have ever truly opened up about the way I feel and the mess that I have gotten myself into. Ya know, most of my life I have always wanted to love a women with all my heart and give to them the best that I can and treat them the way most women deserve to be treated. And deep down, this hurts me so much that all she does is yell and complain about everything. Example that just happened tonight, I offered to do the dishes and she got an attitude and said no I'll do it and began to nag about good Lord knows what. But this is everyday. Everyday is get home and she is there to remind me of some failure and they yell about something else.

All to say, thank you for hearing me out.
You made a bad decision, don't let it sour you on women, just realize you had a learning experience.
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