Re: Men Doing More Chores Increases Divorce?
I would tell you that for a while, there was a lot of B in my household. Now if she complains about how I do something (obvious exception being if I miss something, etc.), I give her two options:
A. The she does it herself.
B. That she keeps her unnecessarily critical commentary to herself.
Letting negative commentary roll off your back (while actually learning to do it the way she wants), and later maybe teasing her a bit about it, might yield more sex, far.
That is what Dug would do, anyway.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man