Re: Men Doing More Chores Increases Divorce?
What I was saying is that just because him doing less chores would cause you to have less sex, someone else could derive from that if they do more chores that it will increase sex, when there are so many other parts at play, such as needs met/unmet, time spent together, respect, etc.
I agree there are many factors.
But a man's pulling his weight around the house is just attractive.
I remember back in the late 70s, early 80s, before this was necessarily common (at least in my family), one of my bils was known for helping around the house. He was the first to get up after a meal and start washing dishes, sweeping floors, etc.
He was well respected among all my sisters for that, far. Never complained about it, either. He knew things needed to be done, and he took the lead in doing them.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man