Re: Men, What Did I Do Wrong
I think I am even more confused that I was before. So I made no contact. We had left it that we would be friends and that we would contact each other from time to time. He left a message on my phone that a friend of his had passed, we had talked about how sick he was previous. In the message he left he told me that we agreed to be in touch from time to time. I texted him let him know I got his message and told him I hoped he was not beating hisself up for not getting the see his friend earlier. He said he was not, said that he had talked to his friend, friend knew his plans but they had not worked out like they planned. So several days go by, I figured the funeral was over so I text him saying I was thinking of him, that was all. In response he tells me he was thinking about me too and tells me all these wonderful things about me....how sweet I am, on and on about my good qualities....nothing said about physical or sexual stuff (thank goodness). I am just totally flabbergasted. This man writes like a poet, seriously. The last text of the night he tells me that he wants to give himself fully to me but that he has someone conflicting him and he needs to deal with it. I did not ask what it was. I figure he is the one that needs to figure this out. My reply was "time will give you answers, sweet dreams."
Of course my head has been swimming wondering what he is being conflicted by but when we talk again I will ask him if he minds sharing.
I'd honestly go no contact with this guy, now. He seems like he wants you to guess what is going on, and keep you around while he figures out if this someone else is worth more of his time, and if not...then, he'll ''give himself fully to you.''
I would highly recommend going no contact. He wants you wondering who has his attention and why you don't. You want to be with someone who is into you. Don't settle to be someone's plan B, when you don't have to.
This early on, you shouldn't be confused, you should be having fun if it's the right guy.
''Sometimes, you fall in love with the most unexpected person, at the most unexpected time.'' - Unknown