I got a lot of stick for posting this on a thread months ago but I will say it again.
Men need to act like men,They are supposed to be the strong partner in a relationship but a lot of them don't act like it.Chuck71 had it right when he said this is not a dress rehearsal it's the real thing.The most sickening thing that I read about on tam is men who have children and for one reason or another feel they shouldn't have to support them,it's like "I screwed up this time but I promise to do better next time,you don't really expect me to pay for my mistakes do you".Then you have the permanent student,will do anything other than get a full time job and work to take care of his family.Then you get the ******* who has kids with two or more woman but can't support any of them.But my ****ing favourite is the guy who wants to "find himself",so he takes off and leaves his partner and kids to struggle on.You have men whose partner cheated so they leave and refuse to pay child support and "experts" on tam will give them legal advice on how not to support their own kids.
It makes me sick.
I will never forget my pop telling me -if you think you're old enough to have sex with your
g/f, then by schit you're old enough to raise a kid when you get her pregnant.- Sure put a damper
on our next few dates. -Don't expect to stay at home, move her in. I ain't running no GD hotel.
By the way.... you best enjoy all the sex you can now if you get her pregnant. After a kid or two, your
days of endless sex will be over.- VERY eye opening....
I have always been a huge fan of the 1950s-70s sitcoms. Many great father figures to look up to.
I don't watch much current shows.... I remember trying King of Queens... Doug Heffernan (sp)
He acted scared of his W, like a buffoon, inept, dim-witted. Same went for Mike n Molly....
it wasn't that bad until about the third season. Same thing as with Dougie. To me.... the guys had
two emotional needs -me is hungry- -me is horny- Seriously LOL! Course I'm sure "some" guys
only care for those two needs. I recall being told some 20+ years ago, "Women think they can
read a guy's mind and they expect the guy's to be able to read theirs." BTW... a female told me that.
I know lazy guys and hard working guys. I know lazy females and hard working females.
To lump every one into a main group of.... 100 million people, beyond lunacy. You get out, what you put in....
goes for just about everything in life.