My expectations are reasonable, I mentioned my standards as being too high!
I would like a woman I find attractive, including kindness, beauty and intellect.
The harder bits, I would want respect, but not veneration. Insecurity can cause some women to put their men on a high pedestal, which sounds great. But, it means what you do is no longer respected. When you put yourself in danger, well you could cope easily. When you take care of her when you both have the flu, well disease does not really affect you. When you work hard, well, it is so easy for you. "I love you" often means, "I from now on rely on you to make me happy and that is my contribution to the relationship".
Such veneration is a killer, but the other side of that insecurity is poison dripping. Most men would die for their women, but living with someone who will continually try to put you down is not acceptable. Of course, we all have insecurities, but I would want the respect combined with the self-awareness not to let such insecurities ruin everything.
All that, and a partner who is also willing to contribute to the marriage - in an actual way rather than 'emotional support'. I do not mean to dismiss "emotional support" completely, as I give it to friends and receive it from friends. But often it means that feeling like you have contributed or claiming you did something is more important that actually doing it, which is BS.
It means that there is a respect and motivation that goes beyond convenience. I had a friend, LC. He had a romantic weekend planned with his girlfriend, but his brother committed suicide a couple of days before hand. He cancelled the weekend with his girlfriend and went up to see his family instead. Rather than being upset about her lost weekend, she instead went up with him, supported him and his family - making food and doing grocery shopping. Shortly afterwards he proposed and they are still together. Such a woman is very rare indeed, but very precious.
It is a fairly dull list, and fairly typical I would think. It does ask for self-awareness and commitment, but I know of women like this. I also know they are of limited number. I am forty now, and even with advantages (I can still go into town and get the numbers of young attractive women), I know the chances of finding all that are limited. But, I am rather happy on my own.
Sorry, it is all rather typical and boring. No great insights.
All that and Catholic would be ideal. But now we are getting into really little chance.