Re: Moments of infactuation
Yeah, if you're not sure how you feel about her then don't force her reach a decision yet because it'd be very unfair of you.
You're still not sure how you feel about her, yet you want her to choose between you and the family. It's like asking her to change her life upside-down when you don't even know what you want out of this relationship. It's not that you're marrying her or anything, so I think you should re-think her possibility of relocating to you.
Davelli0331: If a GNO, or alcohol, or an attractive coworker, or a past flame on FB were all that were needed for someone to cheat, then I think that person had that defect in their integrity all along. All they ever lacked was the opportunity to act on their lack of integrity and the circumstances required to rationalize it to themselves.