Re: Moments of infactuation
Random, sorry to be asking you this question at this point now...but..
Are you 100% you want to be in a relationship with your current gf?
From your other threads/posts it felt like you suddenly found yourself in a relationship you weren't prepared for...but you decided to go along with it because your gf is a good girl and you didn't want to hurt her? Because her family was so good to you that you decided to give this whole thing a try?
It might sound like I'm off topic here ...but if the above is somewhat true...then I don't blame your for the infatuations you might feel here and there ..
When you say you can't give her what she wants, do you refer to a stable, long-lasting relationship?
If you're not prepared for that then I don't blame you, just make sure not to give her false hopes.
THe infatuations you're feeling now are a way to escape from your new relationship with this girl. Early stages of the relationship are supposed to be fun, exciting, passionate...and so on. It's not supposed to be about crushes on other people.
Davelli0331: If a GNO, or alcohol, or an attractive coworker, or a past flame on FB were all that were needed for someone to cheat, then I think that person had that defect in their integrity all along. All they ever lacked was the opportunity to act on their lack of integrity and the circumstances required to rationalize it to themselves.