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Old 01-02-2012, 02:38 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Does anyone else have a slight problem being comfortable sleeping with their wives? For me I like to be very cold temperatures as I can't sleep unless I'm practically in a frozen environment while the missus likes to be warm. In the end she's always holding onto me with her hands down my groin and her body heat wakes me up from time to time sweating.

What can we do?
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Old 01-02-2012, 02:40 AM   #2 (permalink)
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separate beds?
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Old 01-02-2012, 02:49 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Aircon on, A blanket on her.

No to separate beds. Couples should connect in bed.
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We do have the aircon on and blankets, it's just her body heat and it really traps mine. It's like this every summer when I end up waking up sweating.

Oh well, not much we can do it seems, either then waiting till winter.
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No to separate beds. Couples should connect in bed.
i agree.
i didnt mind the body heat, kinda enjoyed it myself the last year or so any ways.

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Old 01-02-2012, 04:38 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I'm the same way. I think I was a polar bear in a past life. We have three thick fuzzy blankets on the bed that she sleeps under and I sleep on top off with my fav cool down blanket and usually got the windows open that I gotta close sometime during the night or she gets a soar throat.
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you should give blanket her.
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oops I meant I sleep on top of with my fav cool down blanket.

Thanx JR
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oops again JOHNIORI



I gotta slow down LOL
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i like it cold, hot sleeping isnt good
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i like it cold, hot sleeping isnt good
no, but being able to be close to the one you love is supposed to be good
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In the end she's always holding onto me with her hands down my groin...
Are you SURE this is a scenario that's so intolerable it needs to change??? I'm inclined to tell you to just suck up the heat and enjoy the ride!!!
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My wife sleeps under more blankets than a crazy person camped out with a shopping cart.
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In the end she's always holding onto me with her hands down my groin...
Are you SURE this is a scenario that's so intolerable it needs to change??? I'm inclined to tell you to just suck up the heat and enjoy the ride!!!
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My hubs is the heat box in our marriage. Holy crap, I love it!

But I have the down comforter and he has the light fleece blankets. The ceiling fan is on all night.
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