Why do you guys regret having had more than one partner?
Having been in other relationships/sexual encounters before made you be who you are today.
Probably you wouldn't be so good to your partners, so devoted and so understanding if you didn't have those past relationships.
Don't regret it!
I, on the other hand, wish I had 10+ partners when it's not even close to that...not even close to half of that.
My psychological state and my flaw to over-think things.. impedes me from pursuing as many men as I want.
Coming from a man with a lot of experience, understand I am not bragging and regret my history, having many women did not help me in any way with my relationship with Mrs. C.
I later used the experiences as points of data that can be useful in understanding attraction and some points about spontaneous sex.
Emotionally, I have bad memories of my promiscuity. I was not in a good place which was a catalyst for my behavior.
In my heart, I have only wanted to become one with one woman.
I can have a sense of humor about sexual history and even laugh about it now but during the time I was having sex with multiple women, my mental and emotional health was not good.
I am a very sexual and passionate man. That was not developed by multiple women having sex with me.
It was who I always was. I had to learn Mrs. Conan inside and out to become a good lover to her and all the other women were not only no help but a hindrance.
My first time with her, I was no better than a scared virgin who didn't know where to put his hands or other appendages.
I shook like a leaf in an October wind and she had to be patient with me.
The super stud that had bedded more than 60 women between the age of 14 and 20 was not present that night! LOL!
Now my confidence and strength in the bedroom grew by leaps and bounds that first week. I bedded her over 30 times, probably closer to 50, and had her making happy animal sounds rather quickly but that was who I always was regardless of any number of women I was with.
She was actually the most difficult to work out.
All my other conquests were either having seizure level orgasms within 15 minutes of getting naked with me or definitely by the end of an all night sexathon.
Mrs. C took about 3 days and many sex sessions to start "howling at the moon".
If I had been a virgin the first time we were together, it would not have made much of a difference except I wouldn't have had near as much baggage.