Just make sure not to be used, be a partner with anyone you make decisions with about sex, and be sure if you try the gym guy, that you are exclusive and safe.
I've already dismissed the idea of being FWB with him. I have a slight feeling that I'm the one who might get hurt so I'll leave it altogether and not go down through that path...especially not with him.
Multiple FWBs gets tricky to juggle and increases risk of disease.
That is so true.
Always value yourself! If you wake up feeling sick about the previous night or start feeling generally low about yourself, cut it out until you get your bearings and can think clearly while still holding your head up with a smile on your face.
If I decide to do something, I want to make sure that I want it too, not just him. So, I have learned not to do things just to please the other person if I don't like that thing to begin with. It's what you said, I don't want to get used.
Be careful of partners. Some men have a really big mouth!
As for the big mouths, again, very true. Some me have FWB just to show off to their friends. Unfortunately, it's hard to tell what man brags about it and who doesn't. One thing I know for sure is that those who brag to me about their past, will also brag to other about what he did with me.
Best wishes honey! I'm hoping for something more substantial for you but just keep yourself healthy!
Thank you!!! I do home something meaningful for me as well. I can't see myself going with the flow, unless I'm in moments of despair or boredom (which happens rarely)