Re: FWB-how do you handle it?
Hi, lovelygirl. Thanks for starting this thread for the folks who want to discuss it.
MrsHolland, I don't have extensive thoughts on this subject. I was mostly just agreeing with what @Andy1001
said about how women tend to get attached in these relationships. It just makes sense to me considering how relationship-oriented most women I know are.
Men may get attached in FWB relationships, too, not sure. But Andy seems to have experience and he specifically mentioned women getting attached.
No other real thoughts on the subject. And it sounds like your experience may have been opposite of what Andy said about women, so feel free to ignore anything I have said here. It may be completely irrelevant.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man