Re: Describe your ideal wife
I think it is common for people to describe their ideal wife based on what is going on with their current situation that isn't ideal.
If you are short money and your wife doesn't work, then your ideal wife would be one that contributes financially. In my case, we have plenty of money. I don't care that my wife doesn't work. I don't think of money when thinking of an Ideal wife because of our situation.
In my case, I am in a nearly sexless marriage. My ideal wife would desire me and want to have sex two or three times a week. This is very important to me. But if my wife was having sex with me every day, I might feel that sex isn't that important in an ideal wife. I would be wanting something else, that I am not receiving.
People want what they don't have and take for granted what they do have.
My ideal wife would be sexual, affectionate and fun to be around. (all things my current wife is not)
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