Re: Ideal wife has changed?
You don't get it. He can find the time to care for his house but he doesn't want to. I don't understand why that is not understood.
Some people get manicures because they don't want to do their own nails. Some people get haircuts because they don't want to cut their own hair. Some people go to a car wash because they don't want to do it themselves. Some people buy their own clothes because they don't want to make their own. Some people buy food because they don't want to grow their own.
I don't understand what you don't get about this concept.
Yea first world problems is right. We all have them, including you. While your on your computer arguing with strangers on a forum about how we choose to spend our own money and free time is first world problems.
No, you see I do get it. But I am not the one who is offended by having my first world problems pointed out to me. I absolutely agree that these are first world problems. And believe me my first world problems are different than yours and Andy's, just as his and yours are from mine. I stated an opinion, you and he are free to disagree as I have stated any number of times. But it won't change my opinion.
In fact the whole idea of an "ideal" wife is a first world problem. When we were living at a subsidence level, the ideal wife was one who could drop a kid in the field and get back to digging potatoes. Now it might be some one has their nails done and is fluent in sexting.
At the center of every moMEnt of my life is ME!
Last edited by Ynot; 04-13-2017 at 01:23 PM.