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post #16 of 31 (permalink) Old 04-14-2017, 07:52 AM
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Re: Are You Her Preferred Look?

I don't know if I really have a type, I have found that some men I just have a connection with.

They all seem to be relatively tall, and I dislike a skinny build. I don't mean thin, that's ok, I mean scrawny.

My hb is 6 feet and and thin but he isn't scrawny. He has a deep voice and lots of body hair which I like.

I think he's damn sexy, but only part of that is physical. I truly respect him as a man, and that plays a huge part.

I guess if I had to pick out the men in movies I find sexy it would be the guys from period pieces..... the ones in war scenes with beards and armor and big builds, and some body hair. No fat guys, just broad shoulder and thick build types.

As for my hb's type, it's not clear to me that he has one. He seems to like blonds, and I am a strawberry blonde, but beyond that he seems quite happy with my body.
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I have lots of types. My husband is definitely one of them.
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When we were first married my wife was perfect for me physically, short, slender, long dark hair...actually nice to look at. She's not that anymore. She's put on probably 100 lbs, and cut all the long beautiful hair off. You would think she's a different person from our wedding photos. I asked her if she would grow her hair long again and she said that would be me trying once again to control her.

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When we were first married my wife was perfect for me physically, short, slender, long dark hair...actually nice to look at. She's not that anymore. She's put on probably 100 lbs, and cut all the long beautiful hair off. You would think she's a different person from our wedding photos. I asked her if she would grow her hair long again and she said that would be me trying once again to control her.
Why don't you open the marriage and go find someone that enjoys your d!ck in them? Someone you actually want to put your d!ck in, all 3 holes! If she doesn't agree, do it anyways, but at least you gave her the option. You don't have a marriage anyways.
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We are both old, that is our type.


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We are both old, that is our type.
Don't listen to this guy: he's a fine looking man.

Luckily for me, my wife apparently digs that Easter Island statue look.
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Don't listen to this guy: he's a fine looking man.

Luckily for me, my wife apparently digs that Easter Island statue look.
Damn, GT! You ain't like that in court, are you?

If you are, you must invariably have to practice before a slough of women judges!

That must be why you're always getting favorable courtroom verdicts!

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I was blessed with good looks, high intelligence and a good sense of humor in a very alpha male package. My wife knew about me before we met. I did not know this but apparently I was considered to be a "hottie" by the girls in her school and our town. Looking back, women did come easily to me but I always thought it was due to my sense of humor. My wife wanted an alpha male like all the males in her family. She says I make her feel safe and protected. My body was in good shape from a year in combat when I met her and was on a scholarship studying Computer Science. My wife still asks me why I even asked her out on a date since she feels that she is not in my league. We are opposites but that has been a good thing in our 44 years of marriage.

On the other hand, my wife was the opposite of my type. I dated cheerleaders and someone ****ty girls. My wife was 4' 11" and 79 lbs. when we met. She was also a virgin, definately not my type. And yet, I fell in love at first sight and got engaged 3 weeks after we met. We are still in love and do not know why.

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Why don't you open the marriage and go find someone that enjoys your d!ck in them? Someone you actually want to put your d!ck in, all 3 holes!
That's a bit too subtle, could you be a little more specific? 🤔

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So gentlemen, do you match your partner's preferred look....?
I think so. I resemble a big bag of Science Diet filled with gentle ingredients for her sensitive stomach, and I pack a lot of antioxidants and extra fiber so she's regular.

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I think so. I resemble a big bag of Science Diet filled with gentle ingredients for her sensitive stomach, and I pack a lot of antioxidants and extra fiber so she's regular.

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So gentlemen, do you match your partner's preferred look or have you ever tried to emulate it?

And ladies, does your partner match your preferred look or are they the complete opposite?
Attitude is a big factor in attraction for me. He's absolutely my type in attitude and yes, appearance too. His appearance has changed over the years. My husband resembles Dave Grohl... if he worked in an office rather than music stadium, although he refuses to wear a suit and tie.

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Most would be surprised at what I look like!

Surprised....but not unhappy!

My wife..... Near East Asian....a beautiful Caspian tiger.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

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I have a few different preferred "types", and yes my current boyfriend fits one of those types (the silver fox type).

A person's specific "look" is always something new and different for me, whether or not they fit one of my preferred types. Their face, the exact curves of their body, the way they move through space, the way they carry themselves...these things are like a fingerprint, and I will typically feel a flutter of attraction the first time I see them, then it develops even more over time as I closely examine these individual traits. As I fall in love with someone, these traits will become more and more attractive to me.

So from a flutter of attraction at first sight, to then very strong attraction after a bit of time and good sex and bonding, and suddenly his "type" and his "look" are all that I notice anymore. No one else seems that attractive to me, really. They are, but only in a nice to look at way.

When I am single however...I have strong attraction to so many different people, all the time.
Wow, as if it was a second 'lovelygirl' writing this post.

I feel the same way most times when I meet some new guy and I start to develop thoughts/feelings for him. Suddenly, even if he's not my "preferred look of all times", he'll become my preferred one because there are things about him that I see and I start falling for. Then, my "preferred look of all times" fades away...

<3 very well said @Faithful Wife

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I'm pretty sure she would "prefer" for me to be taller. I'm 5'11 and she's 5'8, so I'm still taller than her. She just doesn't like wearing 3"+ heels and towering over me. I'd give my left nut to be 6'3. lol
I'm 5'10 and husband is 5'11'' and i genuinely don't wish he was taller. I wish he was more comfortable with ME being taller because I love to rock sexy heels now and then. I'll tell you why I like his height as is: It's compatible with his body. Taller men tend to be bigger. All around bigger and I've never been a fan of bulk muscle or pudge of any kind. My husband is shorter and therefore a little smaller, but his body is TIGHT. I like that. I also like that his size means it's easier for him maintain in the future. I also don't want giant children. A 6/3'' man is ideal if he has the physique to go with it, but it's very hard to maintain that unless he's at the gym 6x/week and I wouldn't want that long term.
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