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post #16 of 20 (permalink) Old 04-18-2017, 09:58 AM
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You can also ask your friends if they have any single female friends that they can hook you up with. If you are unsure of how you are at sex, really the key is just be confident and learn to read your partner(s). There are some good books out that can also help on your technique. She come's first is a good one for learning oral.
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I would suggest you just try dating if you don't want anything serious. Plenty of woman that don't want anything serious out there. Just be honest upfront about your intentions if you want something casual. Regarding one night stands. I think its different for every man so I can only speak from my experience. I never actually went out looking for one. They kind of just happen. Meaning if you're out having fun meeting people and flirting, sometimes you meet someone and there is an immediate spark. The funny thing is, every ONS I ever had, afterwards I would say I didn't know this would happen. Every single woman would reply "I did". It's easier for them than it is for us. With that said if its sex you want, just date. We're adults, most people don't wait all that long to have sex these days if they are attracted to you. But...like I said...just be honest about what you are looking for upfront.
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I know a few friends who had a lot of luck with the paid online dating sites. One said that he had sex with one girl in the afternoon, changed the sheets and had sex with another woman that night.
Ick, you know that some diseases are not prevented by condoms, right?!

Short-term relationships, no problem as long as both partners are honest about what they want.

Hookups can be dangerous and not just because of diseases ... predators are everywhere and are of both genders.

Have fun but be sensible about it.
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Ick, you know that some diseases are not prevented by condoms, right?!

Short-term relationships, no problem as long as both partners are honest about what they want.

Hookups can be dangerous and not just because of diseases ... predators are everywhere and are of both genders.

Have fun but be sensible about it.

Yeah, my biggest concern would be STDs. I'm not sure if I want to hook up a lot, but since I was out of town, and somewhat alone, I thought it would nice to have a quick, casual relationship. Another thing I might consider is FWB.

Also, how are females sexual predators?
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Also, how are females sexual predators?
Under the pretext of meeting you for sex all sorts of bad things can happen. There have been stories in the news where a woman's boyfriend arrives later, she lets him inside your home or hotel room and, then ... use your imagination.

Just saying, be careful ... females are criminals too.
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