Re: Hooking up & Short term relationships
I would suggest you just try dating if you don't want anything serious. Plenty of woman that don't want anything serious out there. Just be honest upfront about your intentions if you want something casual. Regarding one night stands. I think its different for every man so I can only speak from my experience. I never actually went out looking for one. They kind of just happen. Meaning if you're out having fun meeting people and flirting, sometimes you meet someone and there is an immediate spark. The funny thing is, every ONS I ever had, afterwards I would say I didn't know this would happen. Every single woman would reply "I did". It's easier for them than it is for us. With that said if its sex you want, just date. We're adults, most people don't wait all that long to have sex these days if they are attracted to you. But...like I said...just be honest about what you are looking for upfront.