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Old 01-29-2012, 07:05 PM   #196 (permalink)
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Her condition is very rare, and we are told that many psychiatrists doubt the validity of the diagnosis. Her doc calls it a spectrum disorder. No highs, but very definable patterns in the lows, and anti-depressants lead to suicide in a very high percentage of patients in this type, including her. I wouldn't want to give false hope to others, though. Some of the newer medications usually taken along with anti-depressants, along with some medications usually used with ADHD have made dramatic changes in her and our son. The change was like a switch two months ago, and persistant.

I really have benefitted from the advice of others on this site, but personally need to pull away a bit. In addition to my career, I'm a writer, and it seems that my wife's positivity has started up an old, almost forgotten itch.
You gotta do what's best for you and the fam. I wish you the best. Many of us have benefited from your input as well. And it is not surprising that you would be writer. You posts have a certain flow to them.

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Old 01-30-2012, 01:18 AM   #197 (permalink)
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wow now that's some descriptive, meaningful and useful comment. yes i am here and i took that assessment and here are the results, btw that test was something wierd i mean it was like "do you like to sleep?" or "do you like to stay awake?" while both are equally important to me, anyways i just selected options that i think suited my most and here are the results.



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If you are still on here datingopinionz....curious for you to take this test and report your Love languages , as I have my theorys in this.....
sure, i would love you input or any question on these results. a female opinion is always welcome

i can definitely tell i love to spend quality time, i keep my life simple by doing whatever i like (unless and untill it does not hurts anyone in anyways) and skip things that i dont like to do (unless they are really important).

In my life i have very few friends 5-6, but each of them is a real gem, they stand by me on my worst times, listen to what i say and co-operate to very great extent and i really appreciate it and in return i act same with them. i like real people, who are down to earth i.e. simple. these friends of mine as exactly that.

anyways my point is that i really think my life is special as special can be, so i really try to enjoy every movement of my life to the fullest until i can and for that i work in the field that i love the most, i have a very selective group of friends whom i am lucky to have and best of all i am really lucky to have supportive family. i know most of you must be thinking supportive family is what every other person have, but in my country most of people are very narrow minded, they put their children in career that they i.e. parents think is right for them, they make their children marry girl that they select for them, and lots more.. i luckily don't have such ****ty restrictions.

Also i would like to clear that i am quite sure that i am not clingy, although i am hopeless romantic i don't go giving around really romantic gifts to every girl i meet, rather i have just been romantic once to my ex-girlfriend later on i never did it again coz i thought it was not worth it, i would definitely like to surprise the girl who i intend to marry with the most breathtaking marriage proposal and wouldn't hesitate to spend a decent amount for the arrangement but only if she loves me to that level else that would be just a desperate or creepy attempt and i can understand that. most people take romantic stuffs as creepy coz i think they feel romantic people are romantic all the time but honestly it is not so.

Another thing that i feel, when i say i am romantic, people take that as a romantic with "full-stop" they think its the only side of me that the only thing is do is go away giving chick red roses, which is actually not the case, i have sides other than romantic, i am adventurous, i like thrill, excitement, taking risks in live, doing stupid stuff (this just happens), helping people, doing creative stuff (this is actually my profession), traveling, joking (its actually quite hard for me to be serious) although i manage to stay serious at funerals, on weekends i like relax by watching movies, tvshows etc... and so on...

i like to live the movement, when i am with my friends its just me and my friends, we talk about us and general stuff. when i am with my girlfriends then again its just us and no other stuff matter i take interest in what she talks and appreciate it when she genuinely listen to what i say. same applies to my friends.

P.S. Out of curiosity i have started reading "The 5 Love Languages" book, its quite interesting so far :P

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